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But I'm not going to commit to him or anything.
I'm still getting to know him.
I feel like I'm also looking for the red flags, too, because maybe a lot of times throughout the.
I think what I'm struggling with, if I had a secret like that,
I don't think I'm trying to, I don't, I really don't think I'm trying to like prove a point to myself.
Like, Oh, I can be the one that can, I can like appreciate it.
That's good.
Yeah, and in the best case scenario, I honestly feel like he is all those things.
I really feel like he doesn't even care to look at porn.
How do you prove if someone's still doing that?
We've talked about porn before.
Like he's been so consistent and that's the thing.
That's the thing.
Am I also kind of like the, cause if I was from his perspective, like if someone told me like, you've already known this this whole time, why didn't you tell me you knew this already?
I'm a problem with that equation too, because maybe I should have already told him from the very first... Honestly, no.
Yeah, and I feel like if I was, because I feel like I still have more to get to know about him as a person.
I've kind of subtly alluded to the topic of disclosure where I was like, well, I had an ex that was an alcoholic, but then the whole time we were dating, he didn't drink a lot.
But then after it became official, he started drinking a ton and blacking out.
And I felt like I should have