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been aware of that before committing myself to him and then I was already too emotionally deep in the relationship that it was hard to leave and I stayed too long and his response to that is that like if before like he said before I commit to anyone like if I had something like that I would I would bring that up because why would I want to be in a relationship if they couldn't accept all of me so
Next week will be like six months.
I mean, that'd be an easier segue.
I feel like if I was pushing to be in a serious relationship, I feel like it would definitely be a red flag.
The issue is all of the therapy I've been about relationships, the common message is you have to reflect on how does this person make you feel?
Not what he does for you, but how does he make you feel?
And like, say that like, um, the conversation goes well.
And then I tell him like, I'm, I like where this is going.
I want to talk about commitment.
And then he tells me everything and everything is just like a wonderful relationship.
But then at the same time, like there's like the common, like,
wisdom out there saying like no guy is worth losing all your friends for so even if he is quote I would disagree with that I mean really that's surprising
I hear that.
I feel like I'm still stuck on the whole friendship thing because I keep my friendship group really small.