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Matt Kielty

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1691 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

You would be with a group of strangers.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Maybe five people, maybe 15 people.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Who don't know you.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Who have no expectations of you, so that you can maybe be... As vulnerable as one can be.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

So John went to a bunch of these.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

I think he went to eight encounter groups at Esalen.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

And how it worked was... To be open and honest and to talk about your feelings.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

This group of strangers would come together... For hours and hours, sometimes days and days and days on end.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

There would be a group leader, a therapist or kind of a charismatic leader to guide everybody.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

And what you're hearing now is a documentary that was filmed in 1972.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

It was a week-long encounter group at Esalen.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

...lays out these kind of ground rules.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Also, don't ask questions.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Instead, be direct, be honest.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

And so these 10 strangers are sitting in a room at Esalen in a circle on this carpeted floor.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

And they just sit there in silence, glancing at each other.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

And then things shift.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

And it is wild.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

Like the group leader will get some of these people to punch pillows.

Radiolab
You and Me and Mr. Self-esteem

To let out these primal screams.