Matt

I feel like they could do really well from therapy. I can tell just the things that she's reading or the, okay. Think about the things that she's really brought up multiple times. She's like the remote, like that is such a like basic, silly argument that is deeply rooted in other beliefs that she has about her husband.

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he's irresponsible or you know something much deeper than that i like you i'm gonna hold your hand okay yeah and so i feel like there's a lot of things here where they could go and like it's kind of weird that we're holding i know i'd like it i like it though so let's do it yeah i like holding your hand okay so i feel like there's a lot of things and like her just being so specific like she literally went on listed every single household chore and like who does it in their house really did break that i feel like she has like first of all you're not supposed to keep it's contempt

he's irresponsible or you know something much deeper than that i like you i'm gonna hold your hand okay yeah and so i feel like there's a lot of things here where they could go and like it's kind of weird that we're holding i know i'd like it i like it though so let's do it yeah i like holding your hand okay so i feel like there's a lot of things and like her just being so specific like she literally went on listed every single household chore and like who does it in their house really did break that i feel like she has like first of all you're not supposed to keep it's contempt

he's irresponsible or you know something much deeper than that i like you i'm gonna hold your hand okay yeah and so i feel like there's a lot of things here where they could go and like it's kind of weird that we're holding i know i'd like it i like it though so let's do it yeah i like holding your hand okay so i feel like there's a lot of things and like her just being so specific like she literally went on listed every single household chore and like who does it in their house really did break that i feel like she has like first of all you're not supposed to keep it's contempt

Oh, totally.

Oh, totally.

Oh, totally.

And I think that they've prioritized being individuals over how they can be individuals within their marriage. And so I feel like them sleeping in different rooms, getting different like – you know, doing different evening, like her just being like, I'm not going to watch TV anymore.

And I think that they've prioritized being individuals over how they can be individuals within their marriage. And so I feel like them sleeping in different rooms, getting different like – you know, doing different evening, like her just being like, I'm not going to watch TV anymore.

And I think that they've prioritized being individuals over how they can be individuals within their marriage. And so I feel like them sleeping in different rooms, getting different like – you know, doing different evening, like her just being like, I'm not going to watch TV anymore.

I'm like, I wonder it would be so, so hard if you've gotten to this place where you just feel like you're utterly removed from your spouse. But I wonder if one night she'd be like, Hey, what are you watching? Like take any interest in something. If he watches TV all the time and you don't like that, but just like try to step into that. And just give an inch and see if he gives an inch.

I'm like, I wonder it would be so, so hard if you've gotten to this place where you just feel like you're utterly removed from your spouse. But I wonder if one night she'd be like, Hey, what are you watching? Like take any interest in something. If he watches TV all the time and you don't like that, but just like try to step into that. And just give an inch and see if he gives an inch.

I'm like, I wonder it would be so, so hard if you've gotten to this place where you just feel like you're utterly removed from your spouse. But I wonder if one night she'd be like, Hey, what are you watching? Like take any interest in something. If he watches TV all the time and you don't like that, but just like try to step into that. And just give an inch and see if he gives an inch.

But don't test. But just, you know what I mean? Like, just see if there's any place. Or say, hey, like, I know you're not feeling comfortable with individual therapy. I mean, I think it's okay to say, like... I'm considering, it's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm considering divorce.

But don't test. But just, you know what I mean? Like, just see if there's any place. Or say, hey, like, I know you're not feeling comfortable with individual therapy. I mean, I think it's okay to say, like... I'm considering, it's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm considering divorce.

But don't test. But just, you know what I mean? Like, just see if there's any place. Or say, hey, like, I know you're not feeling comfortable with individual therapy. I mean, I think it's okay to say, like... I'm considering, it's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm considering divorce.

I am wondering, given that information, if you would be open to therapy. And I think if at that point he's not open to therapy or not open to even a conversation about like areas that you can agree that your marriage is like...