Matt

I am wondering, given that information, if you would be open to therapy. And I think if at that point he's not open to therapy or not open to even a conversation about like areas that you can agree that your marriage is like...

I am wondering, given that information, if you would be open to therapy. And I think if at that point he's not open to therapy or not open to even a conversation about like areas that you can agree that your marriage is like...

kind of you've kind of separated i feel like she's already so set on this where i'm like i feel like there's some things we can do here like i feel like they've let the trials of life separate them rather than bring them together and like yeah it's like life life can be hard and also like i feel like she's just she's done a lot of labeling in this like she's like i mean she does seem self-aware she's like i'm mean and emotionally volatile he's lazy and entitled like she she has like a lot of like what do they call that she has a lot of things decided in her brain yeah

kind of you've kind of separated i feel like she's already so set on this where i'm like i feel like there's some things we can do here like i feel like they've let the trials of life separate them rather than bring them together and like yeah it's like life life can be hard and also like i feel like she's just she's done a lot of labeling in this like she's like i mean she does seem self-aware she's like i'm mean and emotionally volatile he's lazy and entitled like she she has like a lot of like what do they call that she has a lot of things decided in her brain yeah

kind of you've kind of separated i feel like she's already so set on this where i'm like i feel like there's some things we can do here like i feel like they've let the trials of life separate them rather than bring them together and like yeah it's like life life can be hard and also like i feel like she's just she's done a lot of labeling in this like she's like i mean she does seem self-aware she's like i'm mean and emotionally volatile he's lazy and entitled like she she has like a lot of like what do they call that she has a lot of things decided in her brain yeah

I agree. I don't think there's anything in here that I'm like, this feels like they can't move forward. I feel like these are things that 90% of marriages deal with.

I agree. I don't think there's anything in here that I'm like, this feels like they can't move forward. I feel like these are things that 90% of marriages deal with.

I agree. I don't think there's anything in here that I'm like, this feels like they can't move forward. I feel like these are things that 90% of marriages deal with.

I think it's easy for life to pull you two separate directions. It takes work to stay a unit. I think that with some work, you could make this happen. But the advice we're saying is very contradictory to what's in the comments.

I think it's easy for life to pull you two separate directions. It takes work to stay a unit. I think that with some work, you could make this happen. But the advice we're saying is very contradictory to what's in the comments.

I think it's easy for life to pull you two separate directions. It takes work to stay a unit. I think that with some work, you could make this happen. But the advice we're saying is very contradictory to what's in the comments.

The top one says, have you talked to legal counsel yet? Maybe do that before breaking it to your husband. If you're sure it's what you want, start the process, then start the news with him. I do it before the trip or a few weeks after. It's going to ruin the trip for him in hindsight, regardless if he knows you've just been waiting for the opportunity. I think that's fine.

The top one says, have you talked to legal counsel yet? Maybe do that before breaking it to your husband. If you're sure it's what you want, start the process, then start the news with him. I do it before the trip or a few weeks after. It's going to ruin the trip for him in hindsight, regardless if he knows you've just been waiting for the opportunity. I think that's fine.

The top one says, have you talked to legal counsel yet? Maybe do that before breaking it to your husband. If you're sure it's what you want, start the process, then start the news with him. I do it before the trip or a few weeks after. It's going to ruin the trip for him in hindsight, regardless if he knows you've just been waiting for the opportunity. I think that's fine.

I mean, I think they're just thinking practically, honestly, probably about her finances. But, like, a lot of them say, like, talk to a lawyer first. This one says...

I mean, I think they're just thinking practically, honestly, probably about her finances. But, like, a lot of them say, like, talk to a lawyer first. This one says...

I mean, I think they're just thinking practically, honestly, probably about her finances. But, like, a lot of them say, like, talk to a lawyer first. This one says...

They didn't mention kids.

They didn't mention kids.

They didn't mention kids.