Matua Mark

We had the Olympic pools.

But only at the 10s, bud.

It's time for another Men's Den where everybody is welcome.

We get to slow it down a little bit once a week, and we call it the Men's Den.

It's thanks to our mates at Spates, helping mates.

Be better, mate.

We love you, Spates.

We do love you, Spates.

I had something that I brought up last week.

It was the things you have to accept if you want a relationship.

that lasts uh and last week we were discussing uh your partner's vulnerabilities will create costs for you and yours will create costs for them and there was a few things that i wanted to to go through with these the idea behind what happens in a lasting relationship and i think

We have a lot of chat around people trying to find love.

And then there's a lot of people who are in that honeymoon phase.

Generally, they call that the first couple of years is the honeymoon phase.

And then it's the grind or that long-lasting relationship for a lot of people.

So I found this a super interesting post and wanted to discuss another one of the things that they look at here on the Men's Team today.

And one of it is many long-term relationships struggles are not fully solvable problems.

Many long-term relationship struggles are not fully solvable problems.

Coming to terms with the idea that you may choose a partner and whatever it is that, I don't know, flags and makes them angry or upset or relationships, it may end up being a long-term unsolvable problem.

And that's what this post has talked about, which is interesting to me.