Matua Mark

We can help, well, we can work on ways of dealing with, but necessarily solving a problem.

That's my read on it.

What it's saying is that there are different differences.

There's two different human beings coming together here.

Some of them will have different emotional sensitivities to certain things.

You can't solve that.

You're always going to have different emotional sensitivities to certain topics and things that some would consider flags or something that gets someone fired up in an argument.

You won't be able to solve that.

You can't make two exact human beings that react exactly to a situation the same way.

So that's something you should know.

Okay, like fight styles.

Different needs for closeness.

autonomy.

So you'll have different needs for that.

That's not something that is that, you know, that's not that's not something you can solve.

It's an unsolvable that could lead to a problem.

But understanding, I guess, and that's why I'm saying I don't think sacrifice is the right word to be making in relationships.

I think it's like an understanding.

It's more of an understanding of what each other needs.

And different tolerance for conflict is what you're saying.