Max Lugavere

Because your gut shouldn't be the boss of you.

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Okay, so coherence.

Yeah, coherence.

There's another way to think about it.

Meaning is the why, purpose is the what.

You're doing it.

My why is I think I...

I aspire to ease suffering in the world because I've seen suffering so, and I know suffering so intimately with what I experienced with my mom.

And so you can't forget going through that experience.

And it's just left such a,

a scar on me.

And so everything I do is really filtered through that lens.

Like every sentence I publicly put out, whether it's in a throwaway Instagram caption, in my stories, it's all through the lens of,

You know, does this have the ability to transmute some truth in some way that ultimately might play a role in reducing suffering for somebody who's receiving it?

yeah yeah right yeah there's joy in the work for sure i know that's one of your the the four that's transcendence yeah yeah that's transcendence yeah exactly the four tent poles of um friends work family faith faith of transcendence right you transcend yourself by serving the world that's one of the ways that people do that who are who don't aren't even necessarily religious but if you transcend you by looking outward at the world and serving the world

life becomes much better and more meaningful you will use the right hemisphere of your brain if you stop looking at yourself trying to solve your own problems and you start doing things that actually spread love and happiness to the rest of the world i love it yeah do you think there's a gendered aspect to this because when you were describing the fact that society has become so hyper fixated on solving problems it reminds me of when i've had like relationship experts on the on the podcast and they talk about you know one of the big disconnects between men and women in relationship is that

Sometimes women, when they offload their problems, where men default to is like, okay, how can I fix these problems?

Whereas women, what they typically are seeking is what I've heard.

I'm not a woman, obviously.