Megan Kozak

You've got it exactly right.

So it skews a little earlier than what I would have expected, right?

When I was looking at that data, I was a bit surprised.

I'm like, oh,

That's a lot of people who are saying this in under three months.

There's some big, brave, bold people you've got here as your listeners.

Yeah, for the most part, it tends to be between three and five months.

That's the average of when people will start to say I love you for the first time.

Look, I think that's a really good question.

And I'm going to be careful as I answer this because it's not like day 112, right?

Like it's not like that kind of a sweet spot at all.

and we also have to know that younger couples tend to skew earlier they tend to say it a bit earlier than older couples as well there's higher emotional intensity there's less comparison to other partners and often they're just more in love with the idea of being in love as well and so that beginning point is like oh i just love you like it just kind of comes out a little bit earlier than otherwise so that sweet spot is different for different people in different seasons of their life but really the sweet spot is

After you know that this person, this connection with this person is more than just a spark, right?

This is something that's consistent.

This is something that's safe.

This is something that doesn't have any guardedness or game playing in it, right?

And that I can tolerate it if they don't say it back to me in that moment.

That's your sweet spot.

Let's just check, right?

Let's just check that, right?