Megan Kozak

So there might be moments when there's really great big love and moments when you just don't even answer my call, right?

So there's not that consistency there.

So I can't really trust the moments of intensity that are there.

I'd be looking for moments where boundary pushing is disguised as romance, right?

So if you loved me, you would just drop your friends and you'd come out with me right now.

Like, I love you.

Why don't you do that for me?

Yeah.

And so that boundary pushing can lead to isolation and it can lead to this kind of affection, right?

That feels good, but probably comes with a lot of pressure or a lot of conditions around it.

No, they're not.

Even though it feels a bit confusing, it makes total sense.

Yeah.

I thought it was really interesting, too, because it seemed to be a little bit conflicting there.

And what I want to kind of name here is something I mentioned before, which is people will often think it before they say it by about six weeks.

That tends to be the average, right?

And that starts to mirror up a little bit more with the data that you're seeing from your people.

So yeah, I might have felt it within the first month, but holy moly, it's not coming out of my mouth until we're two and a half months in there.

Yeah.

So that the feeling that's there is really true, but maybe that feeling just has to kind of see if that's still true tomorrow or maybe next week or maybe next month.