Megan Kozak
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So it's this little balance.
I don't know that people are waiting necessarily to be strategic.
right, in that kind of way, like not in a manipulative sense.
They're probably just waiting to check that that feeling still feels true tomorrow.
Yeah, I want you to have a bit of a think about what it means to you, right?
And I know that sounds silly.
Like what does I love you mean to you?
It means I love you.
It actually means a lot more, right?
What does I love you mean?
It means I feel safe.
It means I feel known.
It means I feel like I can kind of talk to you about what I need to, that I really want to be with you.
Think about what the meaning is for you and just check if that's the case.
Do a little check in, right?
Am I saying this because I am wanting something back?
And if that's the case, I'd be slowing down really quick.
I love you is not a transactional experience.
It's not a vending machine.