Mel Robbins
speaker
56,271 appearances
204 recordings
20 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard yesterday
Mel Robbins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Today, you and I are digging into relationships and the let them theory in a whole new way, and I'm teaching you a brand new framework I've never taught on this podcast.
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Me, we, and them, and how to use it to change any dynamic with another person that's just not working.
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Before the break, we were talking about the first mistake
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that I've made that you make in relationships, and that's expecting other people to change.
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Instead, I want you to expect the change of yourself.
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And that brings me to a question that we got from your fellow listener, Terry, who is struggling with one of her adult sons who is really unmotivated when it comes to his career.
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Here's the question.
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Mel, I have two boys, 30 and 27, who have both come home after broken relationships.
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My 27-year-old works a dead-end job and has no ambition while my 30-year-old has a career in government and is fixated on where he needs to be.
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How can my husband and I get through to our youngest?
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We're very concerned he won't ever be successful.
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He won't listen to us and I need some guidance.
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I love this question because every one of us has somebody in our life that we're trying to motivate.
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We can see their potential, but they won't listen to us.
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So let's go to our framework, me, we, and them, and let's start with me.
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And I always want you to start with what's going well, okay?
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So I think personally what's going really well is that your son came home.
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That's pretty cool.
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That's pretty cool that he loves you and your husband so much and he feels safe with you that he came home for support after a devastating breakup.
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I also think it's great that your son is working in this economy.
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