Mel Robbins

Well, I think the mistake with that phrase is things happen.

And

You choose whether you find a reason to go on.

You choose whether you find a reason to learn from this.

You choose whether or not to find some meaning from this experience, not meaning in the death, but a reason to lean into life and love again.

But not meaning in the death.

What are you finding meaning in?

Well, and it's like that saying, everything happens for a reason.

Sometimes the reason why something happens is you're unlucky.

You're in the wrong place.

Life's unfair.

But what that actually is saying to you is you get to choose.

the reason why you move forward.

You get to choose the reasons why you grow.

It's like the after.

After your son died, you said that acceptance is not enough.

Is that how you, because one of the questions I want to ask you is, how do you start living the life that you're in, even though you don't want to accept it?

You know, you can't stop grieving the life you imagined.

You know you need to accept the life you're now living.

How do you do that?