Mel Robbins

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Welcome back.

It's your friend Mel Robbins.

And today you and I are getting all the research back and data supported advice that we need for ourselves and the people that we love who are single and dating and frustrated.

We're changing that with Logan Urie.

So when I knew that you were going to be here in our Boston studios, I said something in a team meeting.

And it was if there was an absolute explosion of inbound questions from them, from their friends.

We put it out online.

Like, I cannot believe the number of questions that we got for you.

And I want to read you this one from a woman named Virginia, who is 25.

There are all these studies about how online dating has lowered men's confidence and made them lazier.

So they just scroll online rather than approach someone at a bar.

Is this true?

I think this is a really important part because I do think that there's too much blaming of the apps.

Mm-hmm.

and not enough really thinking about, okay, well, there's people all around me.

If I'm standing in a line, am I talking to people?

I mean, as I mentioned, my husband met me by talking to me at a bar.

And if you're not actually looking outside the apps, I don't actually think you're dating.

Here's another question that I have.