Mel Robbins

For people in their 20s, many of them feel like, okay, I'm in this situationship.

This is like casual, but I really want to move this to something serious.

but they don't know how to have the conversation.

What is your advice?

I have another question from a listener named Emily.

Let's play that one next.

Talk to the person that is burnt out.

They've been off the apps.

They are complaining with their friends about how toxic everything is.

But there is that yearning deep inside, like I should probably put myself back out there.

How do you do this?

This question from Shay.

I live in New York City and it feels impossible to date here for a laundry list of reasons.

90% of my friends and the people I know are all single, no matter what age they are.

Is this just a New York problem or is this across the globe?

Julia25 asks, statistically speaking, are people in their 20s living in a city more likely to meet someone online or in person?

I do think that there's this kind of angst about where I live and am I in the right place?

Am I meeting them online, in person?

What are you seeing in the data?

Thomas, 26, I would love to hear your thoughts on the ick.