Mel Robbins

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56,271 appearances 204 recordings 20 series first heard Nov 2024 last heard 3d ago

Mel Robbins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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The Mel Robbins Podcast · Let Them: How to Handle Difficult People & Take Back Your Peace and Power · 21 Sep 2026 podcast

And that brings us to the third piece, them. podcast-host

Your only choice is to change the conditions and focus on what you can control. podcast-host

See, you're not changing her and you're probably not going to change him. podcast-host

So you have to change how you show up. podcast-host

This is what it looks like to set boundaries and to create conditions for something different to happen. podcast-host

And it's a dance. podcast-host

When you start using let them and let me, after years of doing things the same way, you're changing the music. podcast-host

The dance feels different when you're no longer dancing on eggshells. podcast-host

Their behavior does not control your behavior. podcast-host

You control your behavior. podcast-host

And that's how you get your power back. podcast-host

And that's the one thing that you change that will change everything. podcast-host

Now let's talk about the third mistake. podcast-host

Oh boy, I have made this one in almost every relationship. podcast-host

And that mistake is thinking they should. podcast-host

Thinking they should is creating a tremendous amount of stress and frustration in your relationship. podcast-host

And from this point forward, I want you to stop thinking they should and start asking if they could. podcast-host

See, you think your husband should know when you're stressed and offer to take something off your place. podcast-host

You think your mother should know that when she makes a comment about your weight or that you're still single or that you don't want to have kids, that it's ruining your relationship. podcast-host

You think your friend should know that you're upset because she hasn't responded to the text you sent four days ago. podcast-host

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