Mel Robbins

Well, I'm glad you said there was a second question.

Here's the thing.

As somebody who's really screwed up her life for large stretches of it, there are times if you had asked, you had instructed me, Mel, the answer is to find more meaning where you are right now.

You know what I would have said?

Probably F you because I don't like where I am right now.

And there is nothing meaningful about this, which is why I want something else.

Do you know what I mean?

What do you say to the person that's feeling that way?

Like there is no way to find meaning where I am right now.

Okay, that's the part I want to hang on to.

This is easier than they told you, and this is also easier than what you're currently doing.

Can you give me some examples in day-to-day life that really help illustrate for the person listening who has never even considered that there's a second world to live in other than the one in your head?

What does it feel like to be in flow or what's an example that you might find in somebody's everyday life that you could hold on to and go, oh, I've experienced this.

Okay, I understand this difference.

I keep coming back to this 14% thing.

I think your next book should be the 14% mindset because I just feel this sense of the invitation of the unlived life, that there's these two lives that we have.

You're talking about unfinished business.

Yeah, the one you're living and the one you have yet to create.

Sure.

And one of the things that you two write about is that you can boil down