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Melissa Kircher

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
852 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

Yeah.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

So the eight...

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

in health or security moves and takes on the characteristics of a two.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

So it's like an eight and a two merge.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

And you have this security move of like when you're healthy, when you're in flow and everything's going as it should.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

And it is a naturally arising thing.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

Eights tend to take on two qualities.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

When twos are stressed out and things aren't going so hot, they're

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

they move to the lower side of eights qualities.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

So this is what it would look like.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

A very warm, loving, generous, kind, others-focused 2 who is in not a great place and is stressed out would start to exhibit the lower side traits of an 8, which would be things like exploding in anger, becoming very demanding, saying, I'm the one that matters, you don't matter, I'm right, you're wrong, being very self-absorbed.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

kind of a thing and feel entitled to that.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

Feel like I have given to everyone else and you for so long.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

I am entitled to act this way.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

And that is the stress move.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

An eight is

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

that is in healthy flow, moving to a two, that desire to be in control would lessen and soften, and they would be more in touch with their feelings, more able to be vulnerable with safe people, the ability to give altruistically when it is theirs to do or give, meaning they're not

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

And imperiously imposing their giving onto other people, which is what you need to be protected.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

I'll protect you.

The Bobby Bones Show
TAKE THIS PERSONALLY - Understanding the Enneagram Beyond the Stereotypes

And eight moving to two is like, I'm going to ask consent here.