Melissa Kircher
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Yeah.
So the eight...
in health or security moves and takes on the characteristics of a two.
So it's like an eight and a two merge.
And you have this security move of like when you're healthy, when you're in flow and everything's going as it should.
And it is a naturally arising thing.
Eights tend to take on two qualities.
When twos are stressed out and things aren't going so hot, they're
they move to the lower side of eights qualities.
So this is what it would look like.
A very warm, loving, generous, kind, others-focused 2 who is in not a great place and is stressed out would start to exhibit the lower side traits of an 8, which would be things like exploding in anger, becoming very demanding, saying, I'm the one that matters, you don't matter, I'm right, you're wrong, being very self-absorbed.
kind of a thing and feel entitled to that.
Feel like I have given to everyone else and you for so long.
I am entitled to act this way.
And that is the stress move.
An eight is
that is in healthy flow, moving to a two, that desire to be in control would lessen and soften, and they would be more in touch with their feelings, more able to be vulnerable with safe people, the ability to give altruistically when it is theirs to do or give, meaning they're not
And imperiously imposing their giving onto other people, which is what you need to be protected.
I'll protect you.
And eight moving to two is like, I'm going to ask consent here.