Melissa Kircher

Would you like my help?

Do you need me to do something for you?

And it's coming from a place of love, but also consent.

So my question to you would be, which one do either of those resonate for you?

Yeah.

And it's funny because the reason I even, I still talk about it, even though I know that it's possible it's not, but I think this particular personality assessment is so influenced by the things that are happening in our lives.

So that's why I give you the context of it, right?

I do feel like based on things that we're going through, especially if you are a person who has had to be in fight or flight for some reason, you may have

things act out that aren't as your normal personality traits.

So I did feel like context was super important when I originally took that text.

Yeah.

Trauma and traumatic things, Trump type every time.

So if you've had a traumatic thing in your life,

I would suggest don't take a personality test of any kind because the trauma response, what's happening in your nervous system transcends personality and any kind of tool that exists because our bodies are, if it's fight or flight, it's fight or flight.

It doesn't really matter what your personality is.

Okay.

And that's what I was so curious about because it helped me understand a lot about myself, at least to understand how I was in that position.

And it did offer a lot of support for me while also being in a lot of therapy.

So it was a balance.

But it was just interesting that those were the two things that came out of that situation.