Melissa Vranjes

oh well without us even realizing subconsciously it's like oh well I hide that thing from them so I'll hide this thing from them which is like telling them how I really feel or the fact that I'm going out for drinks with the boys and I maybe had more drinks than I said oh well whatever you know it becomes your baseline that you don't you aren't fully open with each other and that's just such a icky place to be in like if your partner really doesn't like that you use porn respect that

Find other ways of getting creative.

Use your imagination.

You will actually have far better sex if you wire up your body through imagination and through present touch with yourself.

You will have better sex.

All right, quick pause, because if today's episode has got you in the mood, Wild Secrets has everything that you need.

I, oh God, it would have been over a decade ago.

I was in my 20s.

Yeah, it would have been like 15 years ago, longer.

Okay, so we, it was a work day.

I woke up in the morning, got ready for work.

He didn't have work that day.

And I got ready, left the house, went off to work, drove off to work, realized that I'd forgotten something.

Sounds like a porn movie in itself.

Yeah, yeah.

i was fucked off right okay i can sort of sense that already and and i had never seen porn i had never watched porn before this i just yeah i just hadn't watched porn before this and i came back and i was in a rush so i just opened the door came in went straight to his room and there he was with the laptop his dick wasn't in his hand but he was just like what are you doing i was like

what are you doing?

Oh my God, what are you doing?

And then it was just, it was so awkward.

And it was so weird.