Melissa Vranjes

positions are uncomfortable yeah it looks so easy exactly well and they're getting paid three grand to take it up the ass you know like that is definitely not my love and i need a lot more than that like so yeah i just think when we look at this thing it's like oh but she's enjoying it she enjoyed so my partner will want it too and it's like oh so there's fluffers on the side there's all these things porn is there for entertainment not education so really un

realistic expectations that we think are normal and they're not normal.

So yeah, not great for that.

Okay, so it can help people explore their fantasies safely.

It can be a way of understanding different varieties in sex, things that maybe we've never thought of before, positions that we've never thought of before,

Yeah, or the nurse.

Yeah, and also it can kind of destigmatize sex a bit.

It can open up a conversation in sex, especially if we're going to say, hey, let's watch something together.

It can open up a conversation around your desires and your fantasies in relationship as well.

Yeah, I think it's really common when you're single to watch it.

But what I see, especially for females as well, is using porn and a vibrator as this like quick thing that gets you to orgasm super quick.

We kind of like bypassing the foreplay, the build up, and people aren't having the type of orgasms they want to.

And then we're wiring up the female body to go...

but I come in two minutes when I'm by myself.

Now, when I'm with a partner, why doesn't that happen?

And I work with so many women around this.

It's like, I can come really quickly with my vibrator solo, but not with my partner.

What's happening there?

And I'm like, tell me what you're doing in self-pleasure.

And it's like, sometimes I watch porn, sometimes I'm like, okay, cool.