Melissa Vranjes
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How To Have Sex
How to Butt Play
I mean, I think it can be hot for some people, but just don't use it as lube.
How To Have Sex
How to Butt Play
So if you are feeling uncomfortable or it feels slightly painful, don't ignore that.
How To Have Sex
How to Butt Play
see that as a sign of like maybe you just need more lube you need to change it up or you need to be focusing more on the external rather than the internal and then last one is don't shame someone for wanting it or not wanting it like that's just their preference of their body celebrate it welcome it that's what creates safety and ultimately really good sex begins with safety that is good now i'm dreading this