Melissa Vranjes

Is it working?

No, the battery's dead, I think.

I haven't charged it up enough.

But yeah, just checking in and communicating with each other around it.

What would you want to do?

What's the starting point?

What's a yes?

What's a no?

What's a maybe?

A no maybe, nothing internal, maybe a toy, yes to external stimulation.

And just talking it through.

So communication is key around this.

And if you do have a male partner, I think it's important to say, like, I know we live in a homophobic society.

I'm not going to judge you.

It's not going to mean anything.

You know, it's we've got to be able to move past that to experience pleasure.

Yes.

Don't surprise insert mid penetration.

Yeah.

definitely don't do that and we want to make sure especially between vagina is not contaminating each other if you're going back door do not enter back into the vagina we want to keep that separate even if you're like licking the anus you then don't want to go up and lick the vagina we want to keep it separate if we're going back door we keep it back door can be really helpful to use toys like if you do want to go down on her use a toy around her butt then it keeps it separate