Melissa Vranjes

And I think when we start going into perimenopause and menopause, yes, the body is... There's things that we need to navigate, which is obviously like...

a dryness down there estrogen like hormones are plummeting things like that but if we know our bodies and give our bodies the time to learn about them then yes our orgasms can get better we just have to be willing to put in the time and effort and a lot of people don't want to do that

Absolutely.

But I don't even think that's as you get older.

I've had that.

You know, and that's me in my 30s.

Like 30s.

I think when we talk about dry spells, most couples that come to see me are in a dry spell, you know, and that's aging from 30s to 60s.

So I think anyone can have a dry spell.

Yeah, I work with pre-orgasmic women.

No, you don't know.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And that's exactly what women say to me.

I just don't know.

And they'll describe it for me.

And it's like rather than focusing on orgasm, which I know you really want to have an orgasm, focus on the pleasure part.

Just focus on being with pleasure.

And at the end of that pleasure session, celebrate the pleasure that you felt like you've had an orgasm.

Because the more we like celebrate our body and just be like, yes, I experienced so much pleasure.

That was epic.