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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
Oh hi, you came back. Quick disclaimer, this podcast contains explicit conversations about sex. No one forced you to press play, but we're very glad you did. Today's episode is how to have earth-shattering...
orgasms which sounds overly ambitious but i'm willing to do the research which is very brave of you and wild secrets would also love to support that research so for all your pleasure investigations head to wildsecrets.co.nz use the code have sex for 20 off site wide and get your pleasure investigation tools delivered Welcome back to How To Have Sex.
I'm Vijay J. Feeney and I'm sitting next to the woman who knows significantly more about orgasms than I ever did growing up, Melissa Freges. Hello, thanks for coming. Speaking of which, that is the topic du jour. It is.
Today we are talking about how to have earth-shattering orgasms. Not just orgasms, earth-shattering orgasms.
Who knew there was such a thing?
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Chapter 2: What are earth-shattering orgasms and how can they be achieved?
I know. And don't pause. I don't want you to get into this place of like, okay, I need to perform. It's not about that. Please don't panic. I'm going to be talking about some really great skills so that you can have incredible, deeper, fuller body orgasms.
Okay. Well, looking forward to it. And I think what this needs is a little inhale.
Inhale.
Exhale. All right. Now that we're in our bodies, let's talk about last week's episode. Oh. How did your pleasure practice go? My pleasure practice? Okay, so you gave us two options, one inside the box, one outside the box. Correct. The inside the box was pleasure mapping. Yeah. And the outside the box was actually not too bad. It was erotic massage. So guess which one I chose.
Okay.
Inside the box?
No, outside the box! And after doing the erotic massage, someone did end up inside the box. Oh my gosh!
So that was a great pleasure, Pregnus. Thanks very much, teacher. Did they end inside the box when you were receiving or giving? No, look, that's enough information for now.
This is a classy show. We don't want to give too much... Too much details.
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Chapter 3: What are the different types of orgasms and how do they feel?
I'm like, okay.
Yeah, she's not having a cervical orgasm.
No.
Thumping does not happen.
No, no. Yeah. Um... All right. Well, okay. What other types of orgasms are there? So we've got the clitoral one.
G-spot internal. You've got the A-spot, so it's just a little bit back from the G. You've got the cervix. You've got the P and the K, which is on the posterior wall, so the back wall towards the anus.
Oh, my God, so many letters of the alphabet. Let's start with A, because I'd never heard of an A spot before. I thought there was only a G spot and a C spot, and the C stood for clitoris. Oh, yeah, it could do that.
Okay, wait. So G spot is where we're going a knuckle to a knuckle and a half deep. It feels like when it's aroused, it feels kind of like the roof of your mouth, like the ridge of the roof of your mouth, that front bit, yeah. Oh, okay.
yeah and then the a spot feels like if you take your tongue even back further it goes smooth you know it's rigid and then it goes smooth that's exactly what the vagina feels like wait so the a spot is above the g spot back yep on the same wall yep same wall anterior front wall towards the belly button and you just rub it
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Chapter 4: Why is there a significant difference in orgasmic experiences between men and women?
What would that look like? And focus on the pleasure thing and use some of the somatic tools that I've spoken about. So placement of awareness. Where is your awareness? Is it somewhere else or is it on your body? Not in the laundry room. Not in the laundry. No one cares about the laundry. Okay.
um your breath just take a breath drop into your body and connect with sensations the tingling that you're feeling in your clit the aliveness that you're feeling in your pussy like really focus on that bring in some movement if you want to that could just be a little shimmy like release the stress release the tension that you're holding on to and just try and build pleasure let's just this week focus on pleasure rather than orgasm and eventually
That will help you have bigger and better orgasms because we're not trying to short circuit our orgasmic journey. It's like we're really building it up to get to that orgasmic peak, which means deeper, more full body and bigger orgasms.
Well, I certainly learned a lot today. I've learned that great orgasms aren't reserved for some secret VIP club and we can all have them.
Yes. And it's all about curiosity and having fun and just playing rather than the seriousness of like, getting to the sand, go!
You know? Although it is quite good when you do get there. It's great. Thanks for joining us again. And please like and subscribe and DM us all details about how you can contact us in the show notes.
And next episode, we're going to be talking about the rear.
But play! I'm clenching already, so. My sphincter. I'm going to call in sick that day.
Thanks for coming.
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