How To Have Sex
Episodes
How To Have Earth Shattering Orgasms
28 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Earth-shattering. It sounds ambitious, but Mel reckons it's not only possible, it's absolutely learnable. And it has nothing to do with performing, fa...
How to enhance your sex life with erotic activities
21 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
This might be our most hilarious episode yet.In this episode of How To Have Sex, Jay-Jay Feeney and sex & relationship coach Melissa Vranjes set o...
How to navigate low libido in pregnancy and sex postpartum (Mel’s story)
14 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Pregnancy can change everything.. your body, your hormones, your relationship to pleasure, and the way you feel about s*x. In this deeply personal ep...
How to Dirty Talk (Without Dying of Embarrassment)
07 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Dirty talk makes Jay-Jay want to crawl under the bed and disappear… so naturally, that’s exactly what this episode is about.In this episode of How...
How to Give World-Class Head
31 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Talking about oral sex makes Jay-Jay wildly uncomfortable… which is exactly why this episode had to happen.In this lesson of How To Have Sex, Jay-Ja...
EP 00: Foreplay (Get in Bed with Jay-Jay & Mel)
24 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to How To Have Sex ... the podcast giving everyday New Zealanders the practical tools to have better, more confident, more satisfying sex live...
EP 01: How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life
24 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What actually separates good sex from great sex? Spoiler: it's not the positions, the toys, or the techniques.In this episode, sex and relationship co...
WE ARE COMING!
27 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
One’s a sex coach. The other one’s awkward.Both are getting into bed to talk about it.How to Have Sex is hosted by Jay-Jay Feeney — one of New Z...