Melissa Vranjes

Instead of like, oh, do I have one?

Do I not have one?

Oh, why am I so broken?

The body receives that, you know?

And it's like, again, it just comes back to this pressure thing.

orgasms don't happen under pressure they literally they're elusive when when there's pressure so if you've never had an orgasm before please just focus on pleasure celebrate the pleasure that you've experienced or that you felt with your partner or solo like you've had an orgasm and just keep at it maybe you do a program or a course or someone that actually teaches you your anatomy your pleasure anatomy where to touch how to touch it

I'll give you a yoni massage.

Okay, so if you're here and you've never had an orgasm and you want to know, have I had one?

Like, Mel, just tell me what it feels like.

I'll try and describe a clitoral orgasm.

So a clitoral orgasm is like this sharp peak where you build something up.

There's a lot of tension in your body.

So it's almost like your butt, muck, or...

butt muscles squeeze.

It's like your inner thighs squeeze.

You feel maybe hot flushes.

Your heart is kind of beating fast.

You maybe get flushed cheeks.

It could be that you're holding your breath or your breath is like a lot shallower.

And it's like, I've just got to do something with this feeling, like the intensity of this.