Melissa Vranjes

It's outdoor.

Absolutely.

But that's novelty, right?

And novelty is what sparks confidence.

of eroticism and arousal and hotness is just lots of people get turned on by novelty that newness you know it's like let's go outside and fuck in the backyard oh that feels hot okay how do we do that let's yeah i have so many questions about this and i just i kind of don't know what orders to go in okay so i'll start from let's talk about

No, let's start it here.

Eroticism is so interesting.

We're not going to dive into the psychology of eroticism, but last year when I did some deeper studies, I studied eroticism, and it's so interesting the different flavors of eroticism.

eroticism that turn us on so when I think about the sibling thing what I immediately go to is like there's a tabooness obviously and it's like that shouldn't be happening that's not allowed to happen so it's not I don't even think it's a dynamic of the sibling thing it's just like this is so wrong or like this really shouldn't be happening and that's what's turning me on right

You know, which is, you know, coming back to outdoor play, it's like we shouldn't be doing this outdoor.

We're in a freaking park.

There's people all around us and you're sliding in behind me as we're laying on this rug here under this tree.

Like we shouldn't be doing this.

But there's something so erotic about it because of the tabooness of it.

Yes, that is so common.

I think the first time I watched porn, other than catching my boyfriend at the time, was lesbian porn.

We'll go back to that, by the way.

It was lesbian porn.

And I've had this question so many times in my DMs or in anonymous Q box on Instagram, where,

like I'm not gay but I love watching lesbian porn what does that mean I'm so confused and I think it's because when we watch lesbian porn it's the slowness of like seeing someone go down on another woman lots of people don't