Melissa Vranjes

If we're only using visual stimulation as a couple to get aroused with one another, what's going on there?

There's a loss of connection to some degree.

Or it's that someone's not getting their needs met and the other person is like, let's watch this together.

Yeah, it's a once a month thing or it's like every now and again thing or it's like, let's get some inspiration.

And like, what's one thing we could both put in the search bar that could like feels exciting, which could be butt play or it could be threesomes or it could be,

Or it could be outdoor play or it could be, you know, just like, oh, let's see.

Oh, I love what they're doing there.

That feels really cool.

Like, oh, it's maybe you're both wanting to explore something new together and you've had a conversation about it.

So let's come back to the outdoor play thing.

It's like, you know what?

I would love that bit of outdoor play.

Or it could be in a bush.

It doesn't necessarily mean like public.

It could be on a beach.

It could be on a bush.

It could be like, you know, in a park.

It could be.

Could be backyard.

That's outdoor play.