Melissa Vranjes

It's accessible.

It's free.

It's a quick dopamine hit.

We can cut out all the foreplay and just go straight to the climatic part.

We can pretty much search whatever we want and it's ready and available to us.

It's just like, it's, yeah.

Yes.

So statistically, the gender gap is here, is that men are significantly more likely to watch pornography.

Studies show that 44% of men use porn monthly, while 11% of women use porn monthly.

And women are three to four times more likely to consume porn in partnership with somebody else rather than on their own.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

And I think just different drives as well.

Like, some women could watch porn just as much as some do, you know?

We're not...

yeah i i think that and also i think you nailed it around like woman like what they're searching for is more of the attention anticipation like why smut and like erotic novels have become so popular with women because there's this slow build-up you know with whereas men tend to like hard and fast closer right on the genitals yeah women aren't

wanting that they want more build-up they want more slowness and that's just because men and women desire different things in the bedroom we want a plot we want that build-up like women love build-up um but that's not to say that a woman won't search just like cumshot compilation you know like that's whatever you're into yeah uh what do you recommend porn for couples then

I think it depends I think it depends how you're using it why you're using it at all with porn it comes back to your intention of usage why you know why are you using as a couple is it to get inspiration is it to both get turned on if it's to both get turned on are you also using other forms of touch or play or exploration to get turned on are we just relying on porn

And if so, then we need to have a conversation about that.