Melissa Vranjes

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I'm Melissa Ranges and today's lesson is all about how to keep porn from replacing intimacy.

I don't believe that porn is inherently bad or good.

I'm going to try and bring like a neutral lens to this conversation to help destigmatize porn, not create too much shame and ickiness around it, and hopefully just give you some tools to navigate porn a little bit better.

As always.

our pleasure practice from last week's episode.

So I don't know if you call it a pleasure practice as such, but how did you go?

Because I know you said you'd think about it.

No.

And...

a lot of people most people will watch porn at some point in their lives whether it's a long-term relationship with porn whether it's a one-off to just see what it's like because they're curious and it's not necessarily good or bad i think when we go into like the age that people are accessing porn now i would say that that's disappointing and we need to be changing that like it's not even disappointing it's actually scary but um i think today's conversation

we're going to keep it around people, adults.

Yes, adults, yes.

And really trying to explore how we can bring porn into our lives or how we can, if we have a partner who watches porn, how we can accept it potentially or navigate it.

Yeah, it's such a huge conversation around porn.