Melissa

So I understood, broadly speaking, like the phases of healing from a scenario like this. Like you got to date a little bit. You got to blah, blah, blah. Und ich dachte mir, okay, ich werde diese Person finden. Und ich hatte diese Art von, ich zeige ihm die Mentalität, dass das passiert. Ich denke, ich bin klug, ich kann mit Leuten zusammenkommen, ich kann jemanden finden.

So I understood, broadly speaking, like the phases of healing from a scenario like this. Like you got to date a little bit. You got to blah, blah, blah. Und ich dachte mir, okay, ich werde diese Person finden. Und ich hatte diese Art von, ich zeige ihm die Mentalität, dass das passiert. Ich denke, ich bin klug, ich kann mit Leuten zusammenkommen, ich kann jemanden finden.

Also werde ich es jetzt machen. Und und ja, ich habe den Boden geworfen. Und für besser oder für schlimmer. Ich denke, ein Teil davon war auch, dass ich so traurig war für so viele Jahre, dass ich Es hat nicht sehr lange gedauert, bis das Ende der Beziehung endete. Das Trauma, wie es endete, war schrecklich.

Also werde ich es jetzt machen. Und und ja, ich habe den Boden geworfen. Und für besser oder für schlimmer. Ich denke, ein Teil davon war auch, dass ich so traurig war für so viele Jahre, dass ich Es hat nicht sehr lange gedauert, bis das Ende der Beziehung endete. Das Trauma, wie es endete, war schrecklich.

Also werde ich es jetzt machen. Und und ja, ich habe den Boden geworfen. Und für besser oder für schlimmer. Ich denke, ein Teil davon war auch, dass ich so traurig war für so viele Jahre, dass ich Es hat nicht sehr lange gedauert, bis das Ende der Beziehung endete. Das Trauma, wie es endete, war schrecklich.

Aber der Fakt, dass diese Beziehung endete, als ich in den Anfang erkannt habe, dass ich es für ein bisschen enden wollte. Ich denke, ich war bereits in dieser Morgenphase für einen sehr langen Zeitraum. Also hat es nicht lange gedauert, bis es endete. Es hat nicht lange gedauert, um zu sagen, was nächstes ist.

Aber der Fakt, dass diese Beziehung endete, als ich in den Anfang erkannt habe, dass ich es für ein bisschen enden wollte. Ich denke, ich war bereits in dieser Morgenphase für einen sehr langen Zeitraum. Also hat es nicht lange gedauert, bis es endete. Es hat nicht lange gedauert, um zu sagen, was nächstes ist.

Aber der Fakt, dass diese Beziehung endete, als ich in den Anfang erkannt habe, dass ich es für ein bisschen enden wollte. Ich denke, ich war bereits in dieser Morgenphase für einen sehr langen Zeitraum. Also hat es nicht lange gedauert, bis es endete. Es hat nicht lange gedauert, um zu sagen, was nächstes ist.

again maybe not the best choice but yeah but part of it sounds like you were you weren't dating to find your person you were dating to get your revenge a little bit I think I had to prove to myself it wasn't me that I didn't deserve to have that happen to me and so I think I had to prove to myself I could I could get someone, I could meet someone.

again maybe not the best choice but yeah but part of it sounds like you were you weren't dating to find your person you were dating to get your revenge a little bit I think I had to prove to myself it wasn't me that I didn't deserve to have that happen to me and so I think I had to prove to myself I could I could get someone, I could meet someone.

again maybe not the best choice but yeah but part of it sounds like you were you weren't dating to find your person you were dating to get your revenge a little bit I think I had to prove to myself it wasn't me that I didn't deserve to have that happen to me and so I think I had to prove to myself I could I could get someone, I could meet someone.

The high bar.

The high bar.

The high bar.

Yeah. I think what you're talking about in terms of that probably hanging on too long, I think Obviously that's something I did in my marriage. I found as I was dating, following the marriage ending, I found that I was repeating that behavior a lot where I continually wanted to give someone the benefit of the doubt and give them that second chance.

Yeah. I think what you're talking about in terms of that probably hanging on too long, I think Obviously that's something I did in my marriage. I found as I was dating, following the marriage ending, I found that I was repeating that behavior a lot where I continually wanted to give someone the benefit of the doubt and give them that second chance.

Yeah. I think what you're talking about in terms of that probably hanging on too long, I think Obviously that's something I did in my marriage. I found as I was dating, following the marriage ending, I found that I was repeating that behavior a lot where I continually wanted to give someone the benefit of the doubt and give them that second chance.

And it took a while to realize that the same behavior, the same mentality that had kept me in that marriage was starting to Keep me in some of these. I mean, I've been through the situations. I've been through all those different scenarios.

And it took a while to realize that the same behavior, the same mentality that had kept me in that marriage was starting to Keep me in some of these. I mean, I've been through the situations. I've been through all those different scenarios.

And it took a while to realize that the same behavior, the same mentality that had kept me in that marriage was starting to Keep me in some of these. I mean, I've been through the situations. I've been through all those different scenarios.