Melody Beattie

But I believe she was the first woman in Minnesota that was allowed to get a mortgage and a property in her own name as a female.

But I believe she was the first woman in Minnesota that was allowed to get a mortgage and a property in her own name as a female.

But I believe she was the first woman in Minnesota that was allowed to get a mortgage and a property in her own name as a female.

Yeah, it is. It is. So, I mean, while it's important to stay in now, it's important to not forget how we got here. And not much is guaranteed, is it? No.

Yeah, it is. It is. So, I mean, while it's important to stay in now, it's important to not forget how we got here. And not much is guaranteed, is it? No.

Yeah, it is. It is. So, I mean, while it's important to stay in now, it's important to not forget how we got here. And not much is guaranteed, is it? No.

And do you often become passively angry at all these people?

And do you often become passively angry at all these people?

And do you often become passively angry at all these people?

Slide right on down that scale, huh?

Slide right on down that scale, huh?

Slide right on down that scale, huh?

Yeah, we're constantly angry about what we're doing instead of realizing that, yes, there is a connection between us and what we do. And then trying to intercept that connection and figure out what we're doing that we don't like. Who is the hardest person to control? Self. For each of us. So it's so much easier to try and control others.

Yeah, we're constantly angry about what we're doing instead of realizing that, yes, there is a connection between us and what we do. And then trying to intercept that connection and figure out what we're doing that we don't like. Who is the hardest person to control? Self. For each of us. So it's so much easier to try and control others.

Yeah, we're constantly angry about what we're doing instead of realizing that, yes, there is a connection between us and what we do. And then trying to intercept that connection and figure out what we're doing that we don't like. Who is the hardest person to control? Self. For each of us. So it's so much easier to try and control others.

And at first, we don't know them as well as we know ourselves, do we? Yeah. And I would say that it's just not controlling other people. I would say that people with codependency issues, and I am included there, have control issues generally with life. Especially if we came from chaotic situations where we could never relax and allow life to unfold.

And at first, we don't know them as well as we know ourselves, do we? Yeah. And I would say that it's just not controlling other people. I would say that people with codependency issues, and I am included there, have control issues generally with life. Especially if we came from chaotic situations where we could never relax and allow life to unfold.

And at first, we don't know them as well as we know ourselves, do we? Yeah. And I would say that it's just not controlling other people. I would say that people with codependency issues, and I am included there, have control issues generally with life. Especially if we came from chaotic situations where we could never relax and allow life to unfold.

We couldn't trust ourselves because someone was gaslighting us. And I would say it takes a couple hours of my energy every day to focus on letting go of my control issues. Oh, wow. How do you do that? A lot of meditation, a whole lot of meditation, yoga. I have a yoga routine that I'm able to do every day and actually in this podcast room.

We couldn't trust ourselves because someone was gaslighting us. And I would say it takes a couple hours of my energy every day to focus on letting go of my control issues. Oh, wow. How do you do that? A lot of meditation, a whole lot of meditation, yoga. I have a yoga routine that I'm able to do every day and actually in this podcast room.