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Melody Beattie

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
306 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

That can be like from little things like not picking up your socks to, you know, drinking away the family's finances. Everything is on a scale, isn't it? Of what we're doing and why we're doing it. We all have different impulses that motivate us. But when it comes to codependency, luckily we're in this lovely boat together.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

That can be like from little things like not picking up your socks to, you know, drinking away the family's finances. Everything is on a scale, isn't it? Of what we're doing and why we're doing it. We all have different impulses that motivate us. But when it comes to codependency, luckily we're in this lovely boat together.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

And learning to do something that is meant to, for the most part, feel good. Although all things we do that are good are somewhat hard, aren't they? Sometimes really hard. But we're learning what it means to really love ourselves. I mean, I mouthed those words for so many years. But if you look someone in the eye and say, what does that really mean? Hmm.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

And learning to do something that is meant to, for the most part, feel good. Although all things we do that are good are somewhat hard, aren't they? Sometimes really hard. But we're learning what it means to really love ourselves. I mean, I mouthed those words for so many years. But if you look someone in the eye and say, what does that really mean? Hmm.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

And learning to do something that is meant to, for the most part, feel good. Although all things we do that are good are somewhat hard, aren't they? Sometimes really hard. But we're learning what it means to really love ourselves. I mean, I mouthed those words for so many years. But if you look someone in the eye and say, what does that really mean? Hmm.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

I'm not sure we can talk about love from the head. I think we need to talk about it from the heart. Love yourself, take care of yourself. But what does that really mean? So the next 20, 40 years became dedicated to learning what that really meant. To going back, to going forward, to staying stuck and to all the other journeys in between that we go through on the way.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

I'm not sure we can talk about love from the head. I think we need to talk about it from the heart. Love yourself, take care of yourself. But what does that really mean? So the next 20, 40 years became dedicated to learning what that really meant. To going back, to going forward, to staying stuck and to all the other journeys in between that we go through on the way.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

I'm not sure we can talk about love from the head. I think we need to talk about it from the heart. Love yourself, take care of yourself. But what does that really mean? So the next 20, 40 years became dedicated to learning what that really meant. To going back, to going forward, to staying stuck and to all the other journeys in between that we go through on the way.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

They weren't substance abusing. No, they were just ticking off the addict or the alcoholic and reflecting their instability. And I'm going to, you know, be partial to genders, but I don't think that many women knew how not to be codependent back in the 50s, 60s and early 70s. We had been trained. We had been embedded in it, starting with the days that being married to a man was

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

They weren't substance abusing. No, they were just ticking off the addict or the alcoholic and reflecting their instability. And I'm going to, you know, be partial to genders, but I don't think that many women knew how not to be codependent back in the 50s, 60s and early 70s. We had been trained. We had been embedded in it, starting with the days that being married to a man was

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

They weren't substance abusing. No, they were just ticking off the addict or the alcoholic and reflecting their instability. And I'm going to, you know, be partial to genders, but I don't think that many women knew how not to be codependent back in the 50s, 60s and early 70s. We had been trained. We had been embedded in it, starting with the days that being married to a man was

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

inherent to our survival as a species on this planet. So we're talking about overcoming a lot of past karma.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

inherent to our survival as a species on this planet. So we're talking about overcoming a lot of past karma.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

inherent to our survival as a species on this planet. So we're talking about overcoming a lot of past karma.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

Of course they are.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

Of course they are.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

Of course they are.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

It's a little frightening if you think about it, but I really believe we've come a long way. We've come a long way to nurturing and growing that soul within each of us. I've heard this. I can't document it because my mother sometimes had a hard time with the truth. God bless her soul.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

It's a little frightening if you think about it, but I really believe we've come a long way. We've come a long way to nurturing and growing that soul within each of us. I've heard this. I can't document it because my mother sometimes had a hard time with the truth. God bless her soul.

We Can Do Hard Things
Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)

It's a little frightening if you think about it, but I really believe we've come a long way. We've come a long way to nurturing and growing that soul within each of us. I've heard this. I can't document it because my mother sometimes had a hard time with the truth. God bless her soul.