Mercedes Coffman

Yet what happens is they get pulled in by an emotionally unavailable person

And then contact slowly starts to decrease and eventually ghosting starts to occur, which is detrimental to the nervous system.

And then a lot of emotionally available people deal with these crashes where they just do not trust themselves anymore and they don't trust the dating process.

sites or dating in general.

And so that's why I think there's this loneliness that we're seeing in modern day now, because emotionally available people don't trust it.

And emotionally unavailable people don't sustain any particular connection.

Yes, sadly.

And it doesn't mean that there aren't emotionally available people in the world or in the dating.

I work with lots of emotionally available clients, males and females.

The issue is that...

they're not easy to find, right?

And nowadays we're looking for what's easy to find, what's convenient, right?

If you look at everything is expedited, we want to find somebody on a dating app.

We don't go out to meet people anymore.

We don't really have social groups and social circles or community events.

And so a lot of us and a lot of people are relying on dating apps to find a match and to find someone who's compatible.

The issue with that is, is that

That is built for speed.

And so emotionally available people do not have a community where they can go and say, oh, these are other emotionally available people who want to go the distance, who want to just focus on me and don't have five or 15 other matches in their app.

I am working on a dating app for emotionally available people because I've noticed how...