Michaela

I think he should have said something, but not that.

I think he should have said, hey, that's not really kind.

Or like he should have said something...

That is like more conducive to making everyone feel better.

I don't think he needed to say the worst thing he could possibly say.

So a lot of people... I do think it's different between two kind of, like, associates versus a husband to his wife calling another woman right there more attractive.

I don't know.

The thing is, like, yes, saying something made sense, but he didn't need to say, well, it's because she's hotter than you that you feel this way.

Like...

I think there's an in-between place here where we can meet and like he says something to kind of scold her in public and be like hey that's not okay you know that's not true she's a beautiful even just saying like you know she's a beautiful woman you don't need to tear her down anything would be fine I feel like if he would have just said

you're jealous of her yeah that's also fine that's like that's still like okay there's the stop sign after that yeah because it's driving the point home or you don't need to be jealous of the attention she's getting because it's not about like it shouldn't be to him that she's hotter it should just be like okay clearly you're insecure about the way other people are treating her i just i still don't think that between spouses you need to say you're doing this because she's hotter than you

And the wife has some work to do, like, really.

Like, what, you're just never going to be friends with, like, an attractive person ever in your life?

Yeah.

Especially this poor 24 year old girl who's just trying to become friends with her fiance's friends.

I know.

And how hard would that be?

Yeah.

I know.

Why can't like when we read a Reddit story, every single person involved also write their version of events and then we can put it together.