Michelle
Appearances
Crime Junkie
WANTED: Justice for Rhys Pocan & MMIW Part 2
Why does it have to be our own? Are the only ones that keep that flame going? Why can't somebody else help us? Because they know a lot of our people, they get tired too. And that's the sad thing about it. I'm hoping that when somebody hears, they listen and they help, you know, in any which way that they can. If it's news people, get us out there, too. Let our people be seen, you know.
Crime Junkie
WANTED: Justice for Rhys Pocan & MMIW Part 2
Get the law enforcement out there as hard as they do for any but any other race, you know. Caucasians, especially, they're the main ones, and you hear about them all over the news, you know, ABC, NBC, CBS. on the night news and everything, you know, CNN. And it's like, well, what about ours? Where do we fit in all this? And if something were to happen, you see something, say something.
Crime Junkie
WANTED: Justice for Rhys Pocan & MMIW Part 2
If you see something ain't right, try to help them. Because some women, we don't say anything. That's the thing. And I know a lot of us think we're strong. But we can only be strong so much.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
It's a Little League baseball team.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
I know. Unfortunately, they're both the coaches for this team.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
No, no, no. It was a woman.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
I've considered it.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
No, I wouldn't. So as ridiculous as it sounds.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
It is insanity. And that's where I'm struggling with because, well, to add more sprinkles on top of this dessert, the husband is also aware of the affair and her husband. So he's agreed to stay on this team for this last season as well. So basically... On top of that, we actually had a friendship outside of this team.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Like we had three or four years, we've already been friends with this couple and a group of couples. And so we hung out with them outside the baseball field, you know, on, you know, personal lives and everything. And it was constant. So not only did we have that friendship, We lost a friendship, but we also have this issue.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Yeah, I know, John. It's been tough. I can say that my husband did test up to everything.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Yeah, he got caught.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Yeah, no, it's... Even though I'm speaking a lot. Yeah, no, I mean, there's... I don't know what to say because, I mean, he's trying... We're trying out for another team, so... Quit baseball. Stop.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Yeah, that's true. I guess you put it like that.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
That's kind of what I've shared with him too. I've told him, okay, look at it.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
I mean, that's basically it. We want to work on our marriage.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Okay. I guess that's me having to take.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Yeah, I guess I've been the one that's kind of been holding on for our kids.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
I guess. I don't know why it's just so hard for me to stand up for myself, I guess, in this sense.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Yeah. That's exactly how it feels like.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
I mean, he's, he's, I did say it was because, you know, he felt like our marriage was already kind of crumbling in a sense. I had started therapy and he refused to do any therapy. So then when they started talking, it never was like that, but it started becoming more emotional there. And then...
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
because he would vent to her and they would talk about baseball and, you know, talk, then they started, she started having problems in her marriage. And so then they started talking about each other's marriages and that's how that started.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Well, for him, it's because he doesn't want people to find out what happened. So he doesn't want to leave the team abruptly. And then people start questioning why he left. And I said, who cares? Since when do you care what people say or think about you? Now, all of a sudden you care. And that's why we were trying to quietly exit because nobody knows.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
I mean, between the four of us, minus like a cousin of mine, nobody else knows in our family, in our friend circle. So that's why he was trying to do a clean break. But now that the season's about to start, he's like, well, I don't know if I want to leave just yet. We agreed we're just going to do this last season and then we're done. but I'm finding it hard to do that.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
I'm doing good. Awesome. Today's a good day.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Even though they've cut off communication, like her phone number's blocked, like they don't interact at all.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
So my question is, how do I cope with when my husband wants to remain on the same team as the woman that he was involved with in an affair? What? Yeah, I know.
The Dr. John Delony Show
My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her
Yeah, that's true.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
Hi, Dave. Thanks so much for taking my call. I am on Baby Step 2. I have been on Baby Step 2 for about a year. My conundrum is I have an opportunity to take a job in a really remote location. really far away from family. My kids are grown, but I was widowed about 25 years ago and raised them all on my own.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
But the positive to all of this is that it comes with a lot of financial benefit to help out with student loan debt and such. And I'm kind of feeling guilt for wanting to do this going so far away from family for financial. So I'm kind of like, is it loving money that I want to do this for?
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
Well, it would basically give roughly about $100,000 toward my student loan debt. So it would cut it over half. And it would give me a lot of financial freedom after that two years, like coming back and actually being able to spend time with grandkids and such.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
Close to debt-free, yeah. I would probably still have maybe about $30,000 in student loan debt. Mm-hmm.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
No, it won't either. It won't. No, it won't. How old are you? I'm 53.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
um i well i ran up 120 000 but kicking the can down the road as you say um it's close to about 165 right now i used yeah i used it to supplement my income uh raising my kids when my husband died my kids were young we had nothing um it was a suicide so we literally had nothing so it yeah so I stayed at home, went to college late, and I did it so that I could be with them.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
Okay. I needed to hear that. I think from a Christian standpoint, that's what I hear. I agree.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
Yeah, and I'm good with that. I mean, I was brought up by a Marine, so I'm okay with that hard work. I don't have a problem with that. I just wanted to, from a Christian financial standpoint, wanted to make sure.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
Yeah, actual pay. It'll come out to be about $95,000 gross.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
Housing is cheaper. I'm going to be renting a room from somebody.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
Right. That would be my hope. No, it's not a hope. It's a plan. Well, true.
The Ramsey Show
Don't Chase Money, Chase Freedom
I have a credit card of, like, $8,000 from, like, I had teeth repaired this year.
The Ramsey Show
Quit Trying to Outearn Your Stupidity!
Yes, so I have an employer that offers a student loan forgiveness and I am debating whether or not when I go back to nursing school to pay it cash to not add on to the debt that I already have or should I go ahead and take out the loans, be better financially stable during nursing school and then apply for the loan forgiveness after I graduate.
The Ramsey Show
Quit Trying to Outearn Your Stupidity!
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