Michelle Chalfant

Do I, and this is, again, this is a very general thing that humans just do. If I've got an abandonment, I'm just gonna, if I generalize this, if it's an abandonment wound, which I would say that you have, In some way, again, I don't want to not use the words that use or being left. It's like, I'm going to manipulate and this sounds like a bad word, but it's not.

Do I, and this is, again, this is a very general thing that humans just do. If I've got an abandonment, I'm just gonna, if I generalize this, if it's an abandonment wound, which I would say that you have, In some way, again, I don't want to not use the words that use or being left. It's like, I'm going to manipulate and this sounds like a bad word, but it's not.

Do I, and this is, again, this is a very general thing that humans just do. If I've got an abandonment, I'm just gonna, if I generalize this, if it's an abandonment wound, which I would say that you have, In some way, again, I don't want to not use the words that use or being left. It's like, I'm going to manipulate and this sounds like a bad word, but it's not.

I'm going to manipulate and control the relationships out there that I have, because I'm trying not to get left. So it's not a bad thing. I don't want you to for a second to judge yourself, but you're trying not to get left. There's a part inside of you that is programmed to be left.

I'm going to manipulate and control the relationships out there that I have, because I'm trying not to get left. So it's not a bad thing. I don't want you to for a second to judge yourself, but you're trying not to get left. There's a part inside of you that is programmed to be left.

I'm going to manipulate and control the relationships out there that I have, because I'm trying not to get left. So it's not a bad thing. I don't want you to for a second to judge yourself, but you're trying not to get left. There's a part inside of you that is programmed to be left.

So then what happens is the ego builds parts around that little vulnerable child and says, I will make sure that you never get left. I'm going to make sure that so-and-so calls me all the time or texts me all the time, or I know where they are, whatever it is. I don't know what you do, but this is a general thing.

So then what happens is the ego builds parts around that little vulnerable child and says, I will make sure that you never get left. I'm going to make sure that so-and-so calls me all the time or texts me all the time, or I know where they are, whatever it is. I don't know what you do, but this is a general thing.

So then what happens is the ego builds parts around that little vulnerable child and says, I will make sure that you never get left. I'm going to make sure that so-and-so calls me all the time or texts me all the time, or I know where they are, whatever it is. I don't know what you do, but this is a general thing.

A lot of humans will do this in relationships, but they're being driven by this little kid inside that's afraid to be left.

A lot of humans will do this in relationships, but they're being driven by this little kid inside that's afraid to be left.

A lot of humans will do this in relationships, but they're being driven by this little kid inside that's afraid to be left.

It affects your entire life. Everything you do.

It affects your entire life. Everything you do.

It affects your entire life. Everything you do.

I remember working with this guy and oh my gosh, he just wanted to be wanted. That was his core wound. He was an unplanned pregnancy, right? So his mother had him out of wedlock, had him. He was not wanted. And he spent his whole life in relationships with women. overdoing, over everything. And he was Mr. Nice Guy. And I said to him, you've got to show up authentically.

I remember working with this guy and oh my gosh, he just wanted to be wanted. That was his core wound. He was an unplanned pregnancy, right? So his mother had him out of wedlock, had him. He was not wanted. And he spent his whole life in relationships with women. overdoing, over everything. And he was Mr. Nice Guy. And I said to him, you've got to show up authentically.

I remember working with this guy and oh my gosh, he just wanted to be wanted. That was his core wound. He was an unplanned pregnancy, right? So his mother had him out of wedlock, had him. He was not wanted. And he spent his whole life in relationships with women. overdoing, over everything. And he was Mr. Nice Guy. And I said to him, you've got to show up authentically.

So we had to go in and work with that little boy. I love inner child work. We went in and worked with that little boy and helped him to get unstuck because he didn't feel wanted. Do you think he set boundaries? Do you think he spoke up for himself? Hell no. He was Mr. Nice Guy. So I said, you can't even show up authentically in relationships. I don't care if it's at work or not.

So we had to go in and work with that little boy. I love inner child work. We went in and worked with that little boy and helped him to get unstuck because he didn't feel wanted. Do you think he set boundaries? Do you think he spoke up for himself? Hell no. He was Mr. Nice Guy. So I said, you can't even show up authentically in relationships. I don't care if it's at work or not.