Michelle Chalfant
👤 PersonAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So we had to go in and work with that little boy. I love inner child work. We went in and worked with that little boy and helped him to get unstuck because he didn't feel wanted. Do you think he set boundaries? Do you think he spoke up for himself? Hell no. He was Mr. Nice Guy. So I said, you can't even show up authentically in relationships. I don't care if it's at work or not.
He had issues with his boss. He couldn't speak up because he was so afraid of getting fired, of, again, not being wanted, not being nice. But when we went in and worked with that little boy and actually worked with him feeling wanted and knowing like, okay, you can repair that wound. We can reparent any part of ourselves. You just reparented your little girl.
He had issues with his boss. He couldn't speak up because he was so afraid of getting fired, of, again, not being wanted, not being nice. But when we went in and worked with that little boy and actually worked with him feeling wanted and knowing like, okay, you can repair that wound. We can reparent any part of ourselves. You just reparented your little girl.
He had issues with his boss. He couldn't speak up because he was so afraid of getting fired, of, again, not being wanted, not being nice. But when we went in and worked with that little boy and actually worked with him feeling wanted and knowing like, okay, you can repair that wound. We can reparent any part of ourselves. You just reparented your little girl.
And the more you do the homework and check in with her for 30 seconds to a minute a day or every other day, just say, hey, little sweetheart, or whatever word you want to use. Hey, little Heather, I'm here. I love you. I'm still here. I'm not going anywhere. That little part of you is going to learn, I'm not left. I'm safe, actually. I love it here. This part is checking in with me.
And the more you do the homework and check in with her for 30 seconds to a minute a day or every other day, just say, hey, little sweetheart, or whatever word you want to use. Hey, little Heather, I'm here. I love you. I'm still here. I'm not going anywhere. That little part of you is going to learn, I'm not left. I'm safe, actually. I love it here. This part is checking in with me.
And the more you do the homework and check in with her for 30 seconds to a minute a day or every other day, just say, hey, little sweetheart, or whatever word you want to use. Hey, little Heather, I'm here. I love you. I'm still here. I'm not going anywhere. That little part of you is going to learn, I'm not left. I'm safe, actually. I love it here. This part is checking in with me.
This adult Heather, I like her. I love her. I feel good. I'm not going to be left. I guarantee you. And I guarantee it 100%. You will attract in someone different, or maybe you'll stay with this person. You will speak up for yourself. You will be happy. You will be more relaxed in relationships. Your whole world will change.
This adult Heather, I like her. I love her. I feel good. I'm not going to be left. I guarantee you. And I guarantee it 100%. You will attract in someone different, or maybe you'll stay with this person. You will speak up for yourself. You will be happy. You will be more relaxed in relationships. Your whole world will change.
This adult Heather, I like her. I love her. I feel good. I'm not going to be left. I guarantee you. And I guarantee it 100%. You will attract in someone different, or maybe you'll stay with this person. You will speak up for yourself. You will be happy. You will be more relaxed in relationships. Your whole world will change.
Again, we're changing the inner programming, that limiting belief that is walking and inside of you that you're walking around with all day, every day. It's crazy. But this guy, once we worked with that little boy, oh my God, he went from not being able to speak up, but he was a badass at work. I'm talking like president of sales. Like he was amazing. Couldn't speak up. He was amazing.
Again, we're changing the inner programming, that limiting belief that is walking and inside of you that you're walking around with all day, every day. It's crazy. But this guy, once we worked with that little boy, oh my God, he went from not being able to speak up, but he was a badass at work. I'm talking like president of sales. Like he was amazing. Couldn't speak up. He was amazing.
Again, we're changing the inner programming, that limiting belief that is walking and inside of you that you're walking around with all day, every day. It's crazy. But this guy, once we worked with that little boy, oh my God, he went from not being able to speak up, but he was a badass at work. I'm talking like president of sales. Like he was amazing. Couldn't speak up. He was amazing.
He then changed, everything changed. He became the CEO. Like it went on and on. It was amazing. He changed who he even attracted in relationships because he was stronger. It was crazy. It's like a domino effect, you know?
He then changed, everything changed. He became the CEO. Like it went on and on. It was amazing. He changed who he even attracted in relationships because he was stronger. It was crazy. It's like a domino effect, you know?
He then changed, everything changed. He became the CEO. Like it went on and on. It was amazing. He changed who he even attracted in relationships because he was stronger. It was crazy. It's like a domino effect, you know?
Absolutely. I love that. And that is where I go into trusting everything that's happening and everything is happening for us, not to us. Right. When we say, why did this happen to me instead of why did this happen or possibly why did this happen for me? It takes us from victim to empowered.
Absolutely. I love that. And that is where I go into trusting everything that's happening and everything is happening for us, not to us. Right. When we say, why did this happen to me instead of why did this happen or possibly why did this happen for me? It takes us from victim to empowered.
Absolutely. I love that. And that is where I go into trusting everything that's happening and everything is happening for us, not to us. Right. When we say, why did this happen to me instead of why did this happen or possibly why did this happen for me? It takes us from victim to empowered.
And you went there, you went to the empowered place and said, wow, look at all these beautiful things that happened. Right. Again, this is not a religious thing, but I firmly believe that our soul is going to set us up for all these things so we can grow, so we can crack our masks and drop and shed those masks so that we can live more authentically.