Michelle Kaplan

Yes, exactly.

So today we're going to talk about this situation and what not to say.

So this actually came up in a recent episode about deciding to go to something with a friend.

Yes.

I'm going to see if I can find that episode number for you later on.

But if not, just, you know, scroll through.

You'll see it was it was a good one.

So, Lindsay, let's talk about it.

So this situation is different.

This is if you ask, right, in that other episode, it was if you ask who's coming to something in a way that makes it seem like you're making your decision to come based on who else is going to be there.

And no, whether it's true or not, if you ask who is coming before you give your RSVP, it can be really insulting to the person inviting you.

Totally agree.

Yeah.

So we're talking basically today is a what not to say episode.

And then we're going to talk about it, you know, what you what you could possibly do.

So but let's give a little role play example of exactly how this sounds.

All right.

You know?

Yes.

It's so true.