Michelle Kaplan

What do you think, Lindsay?

So try to make your decision based on the event.

I mean, especially I mean, if like if you're going to an event where you might have the opportunity to speak English, you know, like you go to the event, you know, don't worry who's going to be there.

You might meet someone new.

You know, it's it's a very closed minded thing to just, you know, say, oh, I'm only going if these people are going online.

I understand the feeling of wanting to go there.

Maybe you have social anxiety, right?

And that's why.

However, it just is not a good look.

So, I mean, you could say something like, oh, I'm hoping to come.

I'll let you know this evening if that's okay.

Who's coming so far?

I'm sure it'll be fun.

So that, like...

it kind of softens it a little bit, but it's still, I don't know.

Yeah.

But it's like, you know, if you're doing this in a disingenuine way, you know, it might not be able to

Oh, my God.

Well, I mean, it brings me back to in college, I was going on a trip.

And it was like an organized big trip.