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Well, exactly.
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Well, exactly.
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Then it was bad choices that I made as a teenager, having an abortion. Again, another darkness. You're just, that is dark. Then you get married, and you feel as though maybe that's your saving grace. God has sent you this person. But nothing has happened to that darkness that you've been living with for your whole life. And the darkness produces shame.
Then it was bad choices that I made as a teenager, having an abortion. Again, another darkness. You're just, that is dark. Then you get married, and you feel as though maybe that's your saving grace. God has sent you this person. But nothing has happened to that darkness that you've been living with for your whole life. And the darkness produces shame.
Then it was bad choices that I made as a teenager, having an abortion. Again, another darkness. You're just, that is dark. Then you get married, and you feel as though maybe that's your saving grace. God has sent you this person. But nothing has happened to that darkness that you've been living with for your whole life. And the darkness produces shame.
Well, because I think one reason is that we have encounters with people, but it takes an encounter with God to change that and to get rid of that shame. You know... I mean, I'm in the Robertson family, and I'm grateful that God put me in this family. But I'm in the Robertson family, and so I've got all the influences of all of y'all, y'all's wives.
Well, because I think one reason is that we have encounters with people, but it takes an encounter with God to change that and to get rid of that shame. You know... I mean, I'm in the Robertson family, and I'm grateful that God put me in this family. But I'm in the Robertson family, and so I've got all the influences of all of y'all, y'all's wives.
Well, because I think one reason is that we have encounters with people, but it takes an encounter with God to change that and to get rid of that shame. You know... I mean, I'm in the Robertson family, and I'm grateful that God put me in this family. But I'm in the Robertson family, and so I've got all the influences of all of y'all, y'all's wives.
I mean, I've got all of that to pull me out of that, to pull me out of that shame and that darkness. But that's not what I needed, because I used you as my Savior for a long time. But you are not what could pull me out of the shame and the darkness. I had to have an encounter with Christ. And I think it's the same with this woman at the well.
I mean, I've got all of that to pull me out of that, to pull me out of that shame and that darkness. But that's not what I needed, because I used you as my Savior for a long time. But you are not what could pull me out of the shame and the darkness. I had to have an encounter with Christ. And I think it's the same with this woman at the well.
I mean, I've got all of that to pull me out of that, to pull me out of that shame and that darkness. But that's not what I needed, because I used you as my Savior for a long time. But you are not what could pull me out of the shame and the darkness. I had to have an encounter with Christ. And I think it's the same with this woman at the well.
I highly doubt that.
I highly doubt that.
I highly doubt that.
She went at high noon because nobody else is going to go at high noon. It's the heat of the day.
She went at high noon because nobody else is going to go at high noon. It's the heat of the day.
She went at high noon because nobody else is going to go at high noon. It's the heat of the day.
And she went because she knew that. She didn't want to hear the whispers. She didn't want people looking at her. But whenever she went on this particular day, what I love about this is that Christ didn't go to the well for water. He went to the well for this woman.
And she went because she knew that. She didn't want to hear the whispers. She didn't want people looking at her. But whenever she went on this particular day, what I love about this is that Christ didn't go to the well for water. He went to the well for this woman.
And she went because she knew that. She didn't want to hear the whispers. She didn't want people looking at her. But whenever she went on this particular day, what I love about this is that Christ didn't go to the well for water. He went to the well for this woman.
First thing in the morning.
First thing in the morning.
First thing in the morning.
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Yeah.
Yeah.
That's exactly right.
That's exactly right.
That's exactly right.
I don't think that I knew it was shame. I think it was the thought of not being good enough and being damaged property, kind of like this woman. But I don't really think that I knew it was shame until God revealed that. And a lot of it was guilt, guilt over all the many things that I had done wrong. But the guilt and the shame is what kept me in it.
I don't think that I knew it was shame. I think it was the thought of not being good enough and being damaged property, kind of like this woman. But I don't really think that I knew it was shame until God revealed that. And a lot of it was guilt, guilt over all the many things that I had done wrong. But the guilt and the shame is what kept me in it.
I don't think that I knew it was shame. I think it was the thought of not being good enough and being damaged property, kind of like this woman. But I don't really think that I knew it was shame until God revealed that. And a lot of it was guilt, guilt over all the many things that I had done wrong. But the guilt and the shame is what kept me in it.
You know, those are two of the evil ones tools that he loves to hold on to and continue to whisper in your ear about, you know.
You know, those are two of the evil ones tools that he loves to hold on to and continue to whisper in your ear about, you know.
You know, those are two of the evil ones tools that he loves to hold on to and continue to whisper in your ear about, you know.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Did you send cash?
Did you send cash?
Did you send cash?
Yeah, if you sent cash, that might be why.
Yeah, if you sent cash, that might be why.
Yeah, if you sent cash, that might be why.
Or maybe if you gave it to Kay, she might have just sent it and get that money.
Or maybe if you gave it to Kay, she might have just sent it and get that money.
Or maybe if you gave it to Kay, she might have just sent it and get that money.
Well, that was the two lives that I was trying to live at once. What is it, Al? You say you're a double secret agent? Double secret agent.
Well, that was the two lives that I was trying to live at once. What is it, Al? You say you're a double secret agent? Double secret agent.
Well, that was the two lives that I was trying to live at once. What is it, Al? You say you're a double secret agent? Double secret agent.
I think you continue to live in the darkness because of the guilt and because if you ever told somebody exactly where you have been, you're afraid of what their response will be. I don't know that anybody continually loves to live in darkness. I think it's the fear of the light that shining on them so that everybody can see what is in their life. That's exactly right.
I think you continue to live in the darkness because of the guilt and because if you ever told somebody exactly where you have been, you're afraid of what their response will be. I don't know that anybody continually loves to live in darkness. I think it's the fear of the light that shining on them so that everybody can see what is in their life. That's exactly right.
I think you continue to live in the darkness because of the guilt and because if you ever told somebody exactly where you have been, you're afraid of what their response will be. I don't know that anybody continually loves to live in darkness. I think it's the fear of the light that shining on them so that everybody can see what is in their life. That's exactly right.
He didn't tell her everything she ever did. He only told her about her sexual sins.
He didn't tell her everything she ever did. He only told her about her sexual sins.
He didn't tell her everything she ever did. He only told her about her sexual sins.
But she had to have had a great hope that he was the Messiah because she went back to town, and instead of going into her home where nobody can see her, whisper about her, she goes out and tells everybody in the whole town.
But she had to have had a great hope that he was the Messiah because she went back to town, and instead of going into her home where nobody can see her, whisper about her, she goes out and tells everybody in the whole town.
But she had to have had a great hope that he was the Messiah because she went back to town, and instead of going into her home where nobody can see her, whisper about her, she goes out and tells everybody in the whole town.
So she has a hope that he's a Messiah.
So she has a hope that he's a Messiah.
So she has a hope that he's a Messiah.
But there was also, going back to Zach, to the guy that you were talking about. So whenever he voiced what happened to him out loud and to another person, I believe that's whenever, The release of the shame. That's whenever he was released of that shame because he could actually voice that to another person. So this woman here, so she says, I have no husband. Then he tells her, well, you're right.
But there was also, going back to Zach, to the guy that you were talking about. So whenever he voiced what happened to him out loud and to another person, I believe that's whenever, The release of the shame. That's whenever he was released of that shame because he could actually voice that to another person. So this woman here, so she says, I have no husband. Then he tells her, well, you're right.
But there was also, going back to Zach, to the guy that you were talking about. So whenever he voiced what happened to him out loud and to another person, I believe that's whenever, The release of the shame. That's whenever he was released of that shame because he could actually voice that to another person. So this woman here, so she says, I have no husband. Then he tells her, well, you're right.
You don't. You've had five.
You don't. You've had five.
You don't. You've had five.
Well, and the one you got now is not your husband. So she says, well, you're right. So she's confessing. So there has to be a confession before... this shame and guilt can be released.
Well, and the one you got now is not your husband. So she says, well, you're right. So she's confessing. So there has to be a confession before... this shame and guilt can be released.
Well, and the one you got now is not your husband. So she says, well, you're right. So she's confessing. So there has to be a confession before... this shame and guilt can be released.
And that was her. She confessed it right there because she said, you're right. And it's a faith moment. It's a faith moment. That's exactly right. So what happened to her was she was thinking, this could be the Christ. I've got to go back and tell everybody. I mean, I've got to tell people because the shame was gone then.
And that was her. She confessed it right there because she said, you're right. And it's a faith moment. It's a faith moment. That's exactly right. So what happened to her was she was thinking, this could be the Christ. I've got to go back and tell everybody. I mean, I've got to tell people because the shame was gone then.
And that was her. She confessed it right there because she said, you're right. And it's a faith moment. It's a faith moment. That's exactly right. So what happened to her was she was thinking, this could be the Christ. I've got to go back and tell everybody. I mean, I've got to tell people because the shame was gone then.
That darkness that had overtaken her for all those years was now gone, and she was able to go in. and talk to people that she had never been able to face eye to eye before. And she was finally there. Same thing with the guy you're talking about, Zach. Whenever he was finally able to confess what had happened to him, even though it was not his fault,
That darkness that had overtaken her for all those years was now gone, and she was able to go in. and talk to people that she had never been able to face eye to eye before. And she was finally there. Same thing with the guy you're talking about, Zach. Whenever he was finally able to confess what had happened to him, even though it was not his fault,
That darkness that had overtaken her for all those years was now gone, and she was able to go in. and talk to people that she had never been able to face eye to eye before. And she was finally there. Same thing with the guy you're talking about, Zach. Whenever he was finally able to confess what had happened to him, even though it was not his fault,
whenever he was able to confess it, that's when God released that shame and that guilt in his life. It's when God released it in my life, whenever I was able to tell Alan, because I had never told another person in my whole life all the things that had gone on, whenever I had that truth vomit and I shared that with Alan in our bathroom that night, That's when the darkness left.
whenever he was able to confess it, that's when God released that shame and that guilt in his life. It's when God released it in my life, whenever I was able to tell Alan, because I had never told another person in my whole life all the things that had gone on, whenever I had that truth vomit and I shared that with Alan in our bathroom that night, That's when the darkness left.
whenever he was able to confess it, that's when God released that shame and that guilt in his life. It's when God released it in my life, whenever I was able to tell Alan, because I had never told another person in my whole life all the things that had gone on, whenever I had that truth vomit and I shared that with Alan in our bathroom that night, That's when the darkness left.
That's when the shame was gone and the guilt was gone because that's what Christ does. He takes that away.
That's when the shame was gone and the guilt was gone because that's what Christ does. He takes that away.
That's when the shame was gone and the guilt was gone because that's what Christ does. He takes that away.
And I then had hope. Now, I didn't know what was going to happen, but I had hope. And anytime there's just a sliver of hope... Christ takes it and runs with it.
And I then had hope. Now, I didn't know what was going to happen, but I had hope. And anytime there's just a sliver of hope... Christ takes it and runs with it.
And I then had hope. Now, I didn't know what was going to happen, but I had hope. And anytime there's just a sliver of hope... Christ takes it and runs with it.
He pulled his hat down.
He pulled his hat down.
He pulled his hat down.
Nobody could see his eyes.
Nobody could see his eyes.
Nobody could see his eyes.
I am. I'm doing so good. God's been so good to me and healed my body. And now I just, you know, I'm doing so good that I think I'm going to have to get on that diet with you.
I am. I'm doing so good. God's been so good to me and healed my body. And now I just, you know, I'm doing so good that I think I'm going to have to get on that diet with you.
I am. I'm doing so good. God's been so good to me and healed my body. And now I just, you know, I'm doing so good that I think I'm going to have to get on that diet with you.
I think compassion, the best thing for us to do in our daily life whenever we are helping other people is to show Christ compassion. He did not say to this woman, you know, he didn't condemn her. He didn't say, you know, you prostitute. But he didn't call her that. He told her what she did. And then he told her, I can give you living water. I can be the person.
I think compassion, the best thing for us to do in our daily life whenever we are helping other people is to show Christ compassion. He did not say to this woman, you know, he didn't condemn her. He didn't say, you know, you prostitute. But he didn't call her that. He told her what she did. And then he told her, I can give you living water. I can be the person.
I think compassion, the best thing for us to do in our daily life whenever we are helping other people is to show Christ compassion. He did not say to this woman, you know, he didn't condemn her. He didn't say, you know, you prostitute. But he didn't call her that. He told her what she did. And then he told her, I can give you living water. I can be the person.
I can be the thing that you're looking for. So I think the most important thing for us to do every day is to show that same compassion to other people, especially in their darkness. That's a good point.
I can be the thing that you're looking for. So I think the most important thing for us to do every day is to show that same compassion to other people, especially in their darkness. That's a good point.
I can be the thing that you're looking for. So I think the most important thing for us to do every day is to show that same compassion to other people, especially in their darkness. That's a good point.
He knows our name.
He knows our name.
He knows our name.
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Can't take my hands off of him.
Can't take my hands off of him.
Can't take my hands off of him.
As a pleasure for us.
As a pleasure for us.
As a pleasure for us.
As married couples.
As married couples.
As married couples.
Well, and I think it's because that's one of the, things that the evil one uses, almost more than anything, is shame. He uses that because it works, I guess. Whenever you're growing up and different things happen to you, especially as a child, you feel as though those things are your fault, even if somebody takes advantage of you whenever you're a child.
Well, and I think it's because that's one of the, things that the evil one uses, almost more than anything, is shame. He uses that because it works, I guess. Whenever you're growing up and different things happen to you, especially as a child, you feel as though those things are your fault, even if somebody takes advantage of you whenever you're a child.
Well, and I think it's because that's one of the, things that the evil one uses, almost more than anything, is shame. He uses that because it works, I guess. Whenever you're growing up and different things happen to you, especially as a child, you feel as though those things are your fault, even if somebody takes advantage of you whenever you're a child.
But you still have a sense of guilt there because you feel like it's your fault. And so then you keep going through your life and different things happen. And it plays back on that shame and that guilt, you know, because Satan keeps bringing that up. Well, you know, you're not you're not any good. You remember this happened to you. So in my life, it was, you know, sexual abuse as a child.
But you still have a sense of guilt there because you feel like it's your fault. And so then you keep going through your life and different things happen. And it plays back on that shame and that guilt, you know, because Satan keeps bringing that up. Well, you know, you're not you're not any good. You remember this happened to you. So in my life, it was, you know, sexual abuse as a child.
But you still have a sense of guilt there because you feel like it's your fault. And so then you keep going through your life and different things happen. And it plays back on that shame and that guilt, you know, because Satan keeps bringing that up. Well, you know, you're not you're not any good. You remember this happened to you. So in my life, it was, you know, sexual abuse as a child.
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Right.
Right.
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Yeah.
Oh, wow.
Oh, wow.
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because she's only looking at the carport.
Because she's only looking at the carport.
Because she's only looking at the carport.
That's true.
That's true.
That's true.
Well, yeah. Like when he leaves you.
Well, yeah. Like when he leaves you.
Well, yeah. Like when he leaves you.
Al.
Al.
Al.
Masters. Masters. We have a PhD.
Masters. Masters. We have a PhD.
Masters. Masters. We have a PhD.
Okay, good.
Okay, good.
Okay, good.
Now you would just slip in nice and quiet. But back in those days, it was clippity-clop.
Now you would just slip in nice and quiet. But back in those days, it was clippity-clop.
Now you would just slip in nice and quiet. But back in those days, it was clippity-clop.
She made it known.
She made it known.
She made it known.
I'm teaching the word of God. Then my wife comes in there, and I'm like... You should have just repented right there. I was just like... I just stopped. I said...
I'm teaching the word of God. Then my wife comes in there, and I'm like... You should have just repented right there. I was just like... I just stopped. I said...
I'm teaching the word of God. Then my wife comes in there, and I'm like... You should have just repented right there. I was just like... I just stopped. I said...