Mitch (host)
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first heard Jun 2026
last heard 24 Jun
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Things can go wrong.
arguing like there is like a sexual kinky component potentially of it that is like the it's not just also like getting to come or getting getting the payoff of having sex but there's like a psychological reward that's generated by the act of the risk yeah i got that and that risk
it's maybe more severe in the past, like getting caught.
It's like, are you going to go to jail?
Are you in somewhere where like being gay is illegal?
Like those kinds of things come into play, but that may actually be part of what makes it exciting.
Yeah.
And even in like today's world, like where we live, where it may not be necessary in the same way, like cruising, people can get away with not needing to cruise because they can use gay apps for some people that may be like a sexual kink or edge to be, to be dangerous.
Like they're there because of the feeling of like there's something I could get in trouble for.
The sense of like danger and pushing the boundary like in that and that goes with like kinks and BDSM.
Like people are pushing the boundaries of like what is sexually enticing to them.
Okay, interestingly, traditionally masculine edge work, so unrelated to gay, is seen as more aggressive, whereas feminine edge work is seen as more emotional and interpersonal.
Like what?
Like men will go after things that seem more dangerous or aggressive, whereas I guess they're saying with like...
women it would have to do with more like emotional boundaries emotional edges and maybe that would be like i'm not i don't i'm i'm just saying this this wasn't in the recent study but i'm like i don't know like emotional cheating over sexual cheating right like playing the boundary of like how close to be to somebody because that is what's actually like the interesting edge work
Well, one more thing.
Actually, go ahead.
What?
To finalize this, it was like this paper's thesis was that gay cruising actually combines both.
So you have the extreme physical or legal risk, which is like the masculine edge, and the intense, silent, interpersonal, emotional negotiation with people, which is the feminine side.
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