Mona Delahooke
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first heard Apr 2019
last heard Apr 2019
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Poor parenting, not enough discipline, not enough consistency.
But a child who has
stress in their body brain connection.
And the magical thing is once we figure out how to reduce that child's stress load through examining their patterns and examining their individual differences.
And that's what I walk people through in the book.
The behaviors start to decrease.
And that's the a wonderful thing.
And the child starts to feel valued and
Once a child is able to value their own stress response and get help when they need it instead of having the default
oppositional defined behavior, that's where the magic comes in because then we have self compassion on board.
And self-compassion helps us throughout the life span.
Oh, I am so glad.
And yeah, there's there's neuroscience behind it.
And um when I wrote the piece a few years ago now, I sent it to Dr.
Porges, you know, again because I'm not a neuroscientist, but he is again one of the neuroscientists that I respect the most in the world and he vetted
Yes, he he agrees.
In other words, that my clinical interpretation is matching the neuroscience, and I that's probably why the article's been sh shared over a hundred thousand times, um, is that it shows how we we can shift our thinking about oppositional defiance.
from something that we criticize and are afraid of to something we should have great compassion for and have our first line of defense engagement, love, warmth and connection for these kids who cannot tell us with anything other than their behaviors that they're suffering.
I would stay
To give yourself
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