Nadia
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
holding the necklace and going, I received this.
I'm so thankful.
I deserve it.
I receive it.
I'm like crying and crying on the phone.
And because I got it before he'd come home and I tore the box open.
So then when he came home and I could go to him and be like, oh my God, thank you so much.
Rather than like, why did you do that?
Can you afford it?
And even like with the book,
Yes, glimmers, they're these tiny moments that make us feel safe.
But the book is really a deep dive into who you are, you know, and you have to be pretty brave to go there.
You have to be willing to look at why.
And your nervous system probably put that reaction in place so that you felt safe at the time.
But it's like an outdated computer system and we have to keep updating.
But if we're not willing to look at ourselves, then it's hard to update it.
What are the barriers?
It's not easy, to be honest.
Yeah.
It's not easy to, like, look at your shadows.