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But I remember lying on the sofa one day with Jonah and Huxley, her kids, and we were just all cuddled up watching a film.

And I went, oh, this is love.

I've been looking for that, but it's right here.

And in that moment, I got it.

And then it was everywhere.

do you know what I mean and this was before the relationship it was suddenly I was like oh this is love and this is love and this is love and it's happening to me all the time I don't actually need that wait this has been a bit of an epiphany for me so listen you see things you see the glimmers but this is I this is this now sounds like a massive advert it's not but like

It definitely changes an outlook.

Yeah, it's this awareness.

Once you have the awareness of it, it's like, oh, there it is, there it is, there it is.

You know what I mean?

My husband's like that.

He literally talks to everyone and he will constantly, he takes the dog for a walk and he's always, hi, how are you?

Good morning.

Hi, how are you?

Good morning.

And all he wants to do is just radiate love.

and and people know him everyone and we talk about that in the book it's the small the weak ties the weak ties that you start creating and then they become a community and every little street if everyone kind of helped each other out on the street like they didn't well i was just gonna say that was they didn't cover it and they did in the 30s and 40s wartime you know whenever there's

Yeah, but that was such a beautiful thing in COVID that we were all getting groceries for someone else that needed it.

And we were checking on this neighbor and that neighbor.

And it was such a beautiful building of community.