Natalie Joy

Really was drawn to him had feelings blah blah blah, right?

Then I find out how old he is and I'm like, oh my god Okay.

Well now I have this like inner argument with myself if my kids who are in their 20s had gotten to know John and

learned what a great guy he is, just like I did, and saw how strong our relationship and saw all those good things.

And then they found out and they were like, oof.

I'd be like, yeah, but let's have this intellectual argument now.

Does age matter?

Because he's got all of these qualities and I get it.

But these are the reasons why I chose him.

And I still chose him after I knew his age.

And I want you guys to also think about that.

And that's the conversation I would have had after they got to know him.

Teresa, when you met John's mom and sister, you left and they stayed and had a conversation.

His sister said that you not telling them about having children was off-putting and weird.

How did that feel to watch that back?

I mean, it hurt.

John and I had had a conversation prior to getting together with our friends and family, and we both

said that we were not going to say those things we were not going to you know we i mean it's

roll back.

We literally say, we're not going to say ages and we're not going to talk about the kids.