Ned Johnson
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601 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2019
last heard Sep 2024
Ned Johnson’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And I'm not going to respond by treating him like he's 12.
I try to be as
respectful as I as I possibly can.
And it's hard.
It is hard with kids who are wildly inattentive because in part because we get so worried and we think that if I tell him seventeen times it's gonna
Yeah, it was funny.
This the same parent I was just talking with, and Bill knows this family well, um, the girl is is now doing uh research um head head to headed towards medical school and doing this research, don't you know, free, uncompensated research.
And the people there are just not nice.
They're really treating her terribly.
And the the she the daughter doesn't kind of know how to navigate her way out of this.
And I just I just kind of laughed, you just because
Because these folks, they're technically brilliant, but they're not so great interpersonally.
And we started just talking about empathy and connection and how important that is.
And the mom is saying, I'm trying to help her understand that.
And I said, one thing that occurs to me is that it's probably hard for a kid who's 14 or 16 or even 24 to know what the long-term benefits are of relationships that you know that we we get out of this.
world, what we put into it, including relationships and the long time, the longtime benefits that come to you if if you're if you treat people well and they look for opportunities to treat you well going forward, because in the in high school it feels like, oh my gosh, if I stop, you know, if I stop to help someone up or to be kind from them, they're going to get ahead of me and get into a better college.
But when you this this research that Bill talked about of of Martin Seligman,
This perma and the kind of five attributes of you know positive emotion.
Some of that's are you born glass half full or glass half empty?
But it but engagement and relationships and meaning and then achievement.
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