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Nedra Glover Tawwab

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282 total appearances

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We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

It's like, okay, I know you don't know how to burp a baby mom, but these are the steps we go through.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

It's like, okay, I know you don't know how to burp a baby mom, but these are the steps we go through.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

That's good. That's a really good one. I would say that is not a boundary as much as that is something to do with attachment. I think we can't over analyze things as boundary issues. And I think we do that sometimes when we're trying to justify our behavior. My my boundary is you have to give me your phone.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

That's good. That's a really good one. I would say that is not a boundary as much as that is something to do with attachment. I think we can't over analyze things as boundary issues. And I think we do that sometimes when we're trying to justify our behavior. My my boundary is you have to give me your phone.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

That's good. That's a really good one. I would say that is not a boundary as much as that is something to do with attachment. I think we can't over analyze things as boundary issues. And I think we do that sometimes when we're trying to justify our behavior. My my boundary is you have to give me your phone.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

I would say you're trying to control someone else's behaviors, their life, their interactions. And that's very different than managing yourself with your boundaries. I think in that situation, the boundary would be, I will not look through your phone or, you know, something else. I don't think it would be you have to show me your phone to make me feel safe in this relationship.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

I would say you're trying to control someone else's behaviors, their life, their interactions. And that's very different than managing yourself with your boundaries. I think in that situation, the boundary would be, I will not look through your phone or, you know, something else. I don't think it would be you have to show me your phone to make me feel safe in this relationship.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

I would say you're trying to control someone else's behaviors, their life, their interactions. And that's very different than managing yourself with your boundaries. I think in that situation, the boundary would be, I will not look through your phone or, you know, something else. I don't think it would be you have to show me your phone to make me feel safe in this relationship.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

Well, I think about how do we accept differences? How do we acknowledge them? And how do we live with them? I think if you are in a home with another person, hopefully it is a home that has multiple rooms. And perhaps you can go to a room and turn the lights out. And this other person, they can go in this room and have the lights as bright as they want to have them.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

Well, I think about how do we accept differences? How do we acknowledge them? And how do we live with them? I think if you are in a home with another person, hopefully it is a home that has multiple rooms. And perhaps you can go to a room and turn the lights out. And this other person, they can go in this room and have the lights as bright as they want to have them.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

Well, I think about how do we accept differences? How do we acknowledge them? And how do we live with them? I think if you are in a home with another person, hopefully it is a home that has multiple rooms. And perhaps you can go to a room and turn the lights out. And this other person, they can go in this room and have the lights as bright as they want to have them.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

We may not be able to exist in the same space. And maybe sometimes I come over to your well-lit room, and sometimes you come over to my dark room. And at nighttime, when we agree that it can be dark after 10 o'clock, we collectively cuddle up together. That's in a perfect world. Now, I think the challenge is...

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

We may not be able to exist in the same space. And maybe sometimes I come over to your well-lit room, and sometimes you come over to my dark room. And at nighttime, when we agree that it can be dark after 10 o'clock, we collectively cuddle up together. That's in a perfect world. Now, I think the challenge is...

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

We may not be able to exist in the same space. And maybe sometimes I come over to your well-lit room, and sometimes you come over to my dark room. And at nighttime, when we agree that it can be dark after 10 o'clock, we collectively cuddle up together. That's in a perfect world. Now, I think the challenge is...

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

in relationships, when we are living with people, roommates, marriages, just partnered situations, what's really tough is different living styles, right? Like I am a quiet person. So loud TVs and... I see that look, you know, loud TVs and music. I am often caught sitting in my closet because I can't even hear it if I sit in my closet. So I have a whole meditation pillow.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

in relationships, when we are living with people, roommates, marriages, just partnered situations, what's really tough is different living styles, right? Like I am a quiet person. So loud TVs and... I see that look, you know, loud TVs and music. I am often caught sitting in my closet because I can't even hear it if I sit in my closet. So I have a whole meditation pillow.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

in relationships, when we are living with people, roommates, marriages, just partnered situations, what's really tough is different living styles, right? Like I am a quiet person. So loud TVs and... I see that look, you know, loud TVs and music. I am often caught sitting in my closet because I can't even hear it if I sit in my closet. So I have a whole meditation pillow.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

I just hang out in there because I think you should be able to listen to the loud TVs. And you should be able to listen to the music. I'm going to go to my little secret spot and just zone out for a minute. Now, there are times where I will say, you know, to my kids on the weekends, especially before 9 a.m., you have to wear headphones if you're listening to something.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

I just hang out in there because I think you should be able to listen to the loud TVs. And you should be able to listen to the music. I'm going to go to my little secret spot and just zone out for a minute. Now, there are times where I will say, you know, to my kids on the weekends, especially before 9 a.m., you have to wear headphones if you're listening to something.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Say No: Boundaries with Nedra Glover Tawwab (Best Of)

I just hang out in there because I think you should be able to listen to the loud TVs. And you should be able to listen to the music. I'm going to go to my little secret spot and just zone out for a minute. Now, there are times where I will say, you know, to my kids on the weekends, especially before 9 a.m., you have to wear headphones if you're listening to something.