Nick Pollard

So when I give to somebody from a place of love, and that can be anything, whether I'm buying my girlfriend flowers or whether I'm taking my kid to the park or whatever, there's a sense of peace in that.

So when I give to somebody from a place of love, and that can be anything, whether I'm buying my girlfriend flowers or whether I'm taking my kid to the park or whatever, there's a sense of peace in that.

So when I give to somebody from a place of love, and that can be anything, whether I'm buying my girlfriend flowers or whether I'm taking my kid to the park or whatever, there's a sense of peace in that.

I think generosity is probably one of my, if it's not my North Star, it's probably in the top three. So I think there's this beauty in generosity and being authentic about that. When I find myself in the pleasing modality, there usually is something bubbling behind it. Most people know when they're doing something wrong. You can feel it.

I think generosity is probably one of my, if it's not my North Star, it's probably in the top three. So I think there's this beauty in generosity and being authentic about that. When I find myself in the pleasing modality, there usually is something bubbling behind it. Most people know when they're doing something wrong. You can feel it.

I think generosity is probably one of my, if it's not my North Star, it's probably in the top three. So I think there's this beauty in generosity and being authentic about that. When I find myself in the pleasing modality, there usually is something bubbling behind it. Most people know when they're doing something wrong. You can feel it.

The minute that resentment hits you, you need to correct course. For me, resentment in the body just shows up right here in my solar plexus. I'm like, motherfucker, why am I having to do this? If I start hearing that narrative in my mind, and I've trained my mind to hear it now, it's like maybe I need to not you know, do that.

The minute that resentment hits you, you need to correct course. For me, resentment in the body just shows up right here in my solar plexus. I'm like, motherfucker, why am I having to do this? If I start hearing that narrative in my mind, and I've trained my mind to hear it now, it's like maybe I need to not you know, do that.

The minute that resentment hits you, you need to correct course. For me, resentment in the body just shows up right here in my solar plexus. I'm like, motherfucker, why am I having to do this? If I start hearing that narrative in my mind, and I've trained my mind to hear it now, it's like maybe I need to not you know, do that.

The other thing that I, I think you can really do to determine this is, is put space between your decision to giving. So if you make a decision, like I'm going to give, you know, 500 bucks to the waitress because that's a cool thing to do at Christmas or whatever. Right. That's fine. Right. That's perfectly normal. You're never going to see a person again.

The other thing that I, I think you can really do to determine this is, is put space between your decision to giving. So if you make a decision, like I'm going to give, you know, 500 bucks to the waitress because that's a cool thing to do at Christmas or whatever. Right. That's fine. Right. That's perfectly normal. You're never going to see a person again.

The other thing that I, I think you can really do to determine this is, is put space between your decision to giving. So if you make a decision, like I'm going to give, you know, 500 bucks to the waitress because that's a cool thing to do at Christmas or whatever. Right. That's fine. Right. That's perfectly normal. You're never going to see a person again.

They're not going to be pleased with you for eternity, but like when you're ready to give to somebody you love, give yourself an hour. Give yourself a day to ask the question, what is the purpose of this? Am I doing this for the reasons that are genuine and generous and kind and loving, or am I doing this because I need validation?

They're not going to be pleased with you for eternity, but like when you're ready to give to somebody you love, give yourself an hour. Give yourself a day to ask the question, what is the purpose of this? Am I doing this for the reasons that are genuine and generous and kind and loving, or am I doing this because I need validation?

They're not going to be pleased with you for eternity, but like when you're ready to give to somebody you love, give yourself an hour. Give yourself a day to ask the question, what is the purpose of this? Am I doing this for the reasons that are genuine and generous and kind and loving, or am I doing this because I need validation?

I'd say it's similar. I don't know that there's a wild difference. It's one of those really interesting things that it's between the masculine and feminine. I don't know that I could pinpoint a major difference so much as I would say there's different ways of recognizing it. Um, women tend to be, you know, they, they're, so I've never met a people pleaser that wasn't angry.

I'd say it's similar. I don't know that there's a wild difference. It's one of those really interesting things that it's between the masculine and feminine. I don't know that I could pinpoint a major difference so much as I would say there's different ways of recognizing it. Um, women tend to be, you know, they, they're, so I've never met a people pleaser that wasn't angry.

I'd say it's similar. I don't know that there's a wild difference. It's one of those really interesting things that it's between the masculine and feminine. I don't know that I could pinpoint a major difference so much as I would say there's different ways of recognizing it. Um, women tend to be, you know, they, they're, so I've never met a people pleaser that wasn't angry.

I've never met a people pleaser that wasn't a liar and I've never met a people pleaser that wasn't aggressive or passive aggressive. Women tend to be more passive aggressive on this side. So, um, The one thing that I can say about, you know, and I weirdly my my practice will shift. It does this weird thing like I'll have guys and then it will stop and then I'll have girls and then it will stop.

I've never met a people pleaser that wasn't a liar and I've never met a people pleaser that wasn't aggressive or passive aggressive. Women tend to be more passive aggressive on this side. So, um, The one thing that I can say about, you know, and I weirdly my my practice will shift. It does this weird thing like I'll have guys and then it will stop and then I'll have girls and then it will stop.